gracielou8 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I posted earlier about me having difficulties understanding and coping with breakup. Tonight, I went out with a previous coworker who I haven't seen in a while. I was talking about my current situation with her and she was flabbergasted. Evidently about a month before we broke up, she was talking to my ex (he worked at same job at the time as me and the new gf) and he was telling her that things weren't going well with our relationship. He then said he was going out to meet this girl, and he said "shhh, don't tell." Now finding out how things went down, she couldn't believe that he handled it the way he did. Now I am really angry, because not only has he not been man enough to either try to fix the relationship or get out if he thought it was that bad. He is also using me financially and has lied to me. He has his cake and is eating it too! I can'g get out of the lease until October, but tonight I'm going to open my own bank accounts, and that joint credit card that I mysteriously havent been getting statements for a while (and he has been conveniently forgetting to give me the login info for), I'm going to call and change the login info and email so I can see what is going on. I trusted this guy and I found out Ive been used and abused. He will not be able to afford the lifestyle he is living without my income, so I hope he has a plan for what he is going to do! We aren't dating anymore, so I have no reason to pay for anything that is not mine anymore! I've probably been unknowingly paid for their dinners out, maybe even gifts! I am so p***ed off right now!!!!!
Denillad Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 My ex was a user too. Stay strong cause what he did to you he would do it her. It's painful cause we cared deeply for these buys but we must move on from them and all they did in the relationship.
Leandro Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 My ex left me for another guy back in August. She was talking to him for a while too before leaving me. Just remember that if he did it to you, he can easily do it to her. You don't need a boy like him.
Author gracielou8 Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Thank you both for your words of encouragement. What you say is so true, it has just been so hard to deal with because of my feelings for him. Now his little game is going to implode. I will not be used and he is not going to be able to use me anymore. I am stronger and smarter than that!
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