DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 So, I'm trying to find other love interests other than my friend and it's just not working. I've been messaging this guy back and forth a few times and he already wants to meet up for coffee. I was all for it, until he asked me for my number and I don't want to give it to him. He just doesn't do it for me. But the one that I want just wants to be friends. I'm never gonna get over this guy.
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Stop being picky. Give this guy a chance. Here's some advice I gave to someone else earlier today: You're selling yourself WAY to short. Life is not a Hollywood movie. There will ALWAYS be someone else. The hardest truth for anyone to swallow is that there is NO such thing as ONE TRUE LOVE. People fall in love all the time. And the same people fall in love over and over again. When one love dies another will take its place.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Stop being picky. Give this guy a chance. Here's some advice I gave to someone else earlier today: You're selling yourself WAY to short. Life is not a Hollywood movie. There will ALWAYS be someone else. The hardest truth for anyone to swallow is that there is NO such thing as ONE TRUE LOVE. People fall in love all the time. And the same people fall in love over and over again. When one love dies another will take its place. I don't believe that's true. I believe in "the one". I believe if someone dies, then they're "one" is in Heaven with them. I believe everything happens for a reason.
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 And this is the reason why you'll keep getting burned by your friend. Each and every time. He's not going to wake up someday and think, "DreamGirl is the one for me! I was such a fool before! All was once dark, but now, I see!" Good luck then. You'll be needing it.
MarlyStar Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Okay, DreamG, maybe there is 'the one'. But the guy you can't get over isn't him. The One is the guy who perhaps is just like the guy you can't get over EXCEPT HE'S CRAZY FOR YOU. That's the one. Go out and look for him. Friendship Guy cannot possibly be 'the one'. (btw, how old are you?)
Eddie Edirol Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) You know what DreamerGirl, I thought you were a lost cause, but at least you are trying. You just have to keep looking for a guy and there will be one that you will be attracted to, and will make you forget about your friend, IF you let him... This is big, this is progress, youre trying. Ill give you alot of credit for this. Just keep going, it will get easier. Edited April 3, 2011 by Eddie Edirol
somedude81 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 What's really funny is that I feel a sort of kinship with dreamer. Both of us are unwillingly single. Except the reasons are pretty much opposites. I'm not good enough for anybody. And nobody is good enough for her. And of course both issues are just in our heads.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 I deleted my dating account profile. I don't like the site. I don't like the guy, either. I gave him my e-mail and told him I wasn't gonna be on the site anymore, but when he asked me for my number, I didn't want to give it to him. I'm in the friend zone with a really awesome guy and until something either comes out of it, or I stop being friends with him, I really can't move on. I don't want to date right now. I've been burned.
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