ilikemel Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 A girl that I've been dating for about 4 weeks now has been a bit distant for the past week or so. But my friend (who is also 'her' friend) said that when he spoke to her at work yesterday that she was weird to him too. Am I just being silly or should I be worried?
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 "You've been acting weird lately. Is something up?" Problem solved. You're being silly... unless there's anything else you're holding back?
Author ilikemel Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Yeh I had thought about actually saying something, but I don't wanna come off as too needy either ... I am thinking maybe give it at least a few more days ... Maybe she has/had something on her mind and wants some space?
snug.bunny Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Saying something doesn't make you needy, when you are genuinely concerned about someone's well being. How have things been between you two otherwise?
Author ilikemel Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Aw ok well I am generally clueless when it comes to the dating game so please forgive my naivety ... Prior to this point, to my knowledge, we have been pretty good. I thought things were going well.
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Yeh I had thought about actually saying something, but I don't wanna come off as too needy either ... I am thinking maybe give it at least a few more days ... Maybe she has/had something on her mind and wants some space? Good idea, give her space. It's not like there aren't other girls out there.
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Anytime, buddy! And remember: don't let anyone steal your joy!
Author ilikemel Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Anytime, buddy! And remember: don't let anyone steal your joy! Very good advice; unfortunately I'm one of those people where it's easier said than done. I really dislike this quality lol
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Go google the Book of Pook. Download the pdf. All will be made clear.
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