Do I have a right to ask Ex to remove pictures of me on his Facebook page?

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

I really don't want them up anymore. It bothers me tremendously.

[tinktronik]

There is nothing wrong with asking and seeing what your ex says.

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

There is nothing wrong with asking and seeing what your ex says.

 

 

Things ended badly. He didn't respond to me when I contacted him earlier in the week. So I'm not sure he will even respond.

[highviolet]

You can at least "untag" them if you are tagged.

[tinktronik]

Things ended badly. He didn't respond to me when I contacted him earlier in the week. So I'm not sure he will even respond.

 

You can still send a message requesting he remove the photos. And he does not have to respond back. If you ask and he does not remove the pictures, I would let it go.

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

You can at least "untag" them if you are tagged.

 

 

I don't even use facebook. I just don't want for my pics to be on his page. We are done and I have a right to not have my face posted.

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

You can still send a message requesting he remove the photos. And he does not have to respond back. If you ask and he does not remove the pictures, I would let it go.

 

I'm not too fond of my pics being up anywhere on the internet really, but he wanted to show me and when we went away so I said ok with it but knowing him he will keep them up just because he likes pictures. I feel I can't "mentally" move on with them still there.

[fooled once]

You can ask, but that doesn't mean he has to do it.

 

You have no control over what he does.

 

Seems like a strong reaction to this...is there more going on?

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

You can ask, but that doesn't mean he has to do it.

 

You have no control over what he does.

 

Seems like a strong reaction to this...is there more going on?

 

going on as far as what? We are not together so I just want the pictures taken out of public view. He can keep them.

[Tybalt]

Do you feel like if he leaves them up, it means there might still be some hope and that he still wants you in his life? That might bother me as well... Having this little nagging false hope in the back of my mind...

[highviolet]

If you don't use facebook, you wouldn't even see them, so why does it bother you so? Just knowing they are out there for others to see?

 

Serious question, not trying to be mean at all .

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

If you don't use facebook, you wouldn't even see them, so why does it bother you so? Just knowing they are out there for others to see?

 

Serious question, not trying to be mean at all .

 

Yeah pretty much. Its done. So I would just feel better about it.

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

Do you feel like if he leaves them up, it means there might still be some hope and that he still wants you in his life? That might bother me as well... Having this little nagging false hope in the back of my mind...

 

 

No he is done. I'm pretty confident about that.

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

I broke no contact and texted him and asked nicely for him to remove pics of me. He didn't respond, of course. But at least he knows I would like him to remove me.

[collegeguy_24]

You do have the right to ask, but that doesn't mean he has to do it, and you should be prepared for him to leave them up. Legally, since its posted on Facebook its in the public domain so theres nothing you can really do as its gets really tricky.

[TryingtoUnderstand32]

You do have the right to ask, but that doesn't mean he has to do it, and you should be prepared for him to leave them up. Legally, since its posted on Facebook its in the public domain so theres nothing you can really do as its gets really tricky.

 

 

I know he doesn't have to do it. just don't see why he would want them up anymore than I do. Since he ended it and clearly told me in an email he could do "better".

[collegeguy_24]

I know he doesn't have to do it. just don't see why he would want them up anymore than I do. Since he ended it and clearly told me in an email he could do "better".

 

I honestly don't know why he would want them up since he is the dumper. Heck, my ex has herself tagged in the one photo of us together still, and she dumped me last August!

 

The mind of the dumper, especially in regards to all the technology and social media of todays world, is very confusing.

[Am4Real]

I honestly don't know why he would want them up since he is the dumper. Heck, my ex has herself tagged in the one photo of us together still, and she dumped me last August!

 

The mind of the dumper, especially in regards to all the technology and social media of todays world, is very confusing.

 

It ended badly as you say then I'm sure he will LEAVE THE PICS up since he knows you want them down just to bother you.

 

I'd let it go and I'm sure in time if his life moves on he will not want anything of you displayed on his page especially if a new GF would be asking questions about who you are.

 

i assume you have untagged you have untagged yourself already.