LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 I have already posted about how I find it hard to meet men. My modelling takes me all around the world, yet the only guys that seem to approach me and have it all turn out to be married. There are so many men willing to have an affair behind their wives backs. I turn them down of course, though I had sex once with one when I was younger but I knew he wouldn't be able to give me what I want. Do guys like to have their cake and eat it? Would most men have sex with a beautiful women if they could get away with it? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Not me. If you ruin this marriage I doubt I will ever somebody like this again and I could never live with myself if I betrayed her. She never questions or accuses me and I would be a piece of garbage for betraying that trust. Link to post Share on other sites
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Lovely, I think you already know the answer to that one. Woogle, if you're happily married, why are you hanging out at dating forums? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Lovely, I think you already know the answer to that one. Woogle, if you're happily married, why are you hanging out at dating forums? This is a relationship advice forum and not a dating forum. Link to post Share on other sites
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 This is a relationship advice forum and not a dating forum. If you're happily married, why're you on a relationship advice forum? I suppose to help people, correct? Link to post Share on other sites
highviolet Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 If you're happily married, why're you on a relationship advice forum? Umm to give and/or get advice on relationships, duh Link to post Share on other sites
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Share Posted April 3, 2011 Umm to give and/or get advice on relationships, duh You seem like a nasty person, always ready to be mean to people. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 If you're happily married, why're you on a relationship advice forum? I suppose to help people, correct? To mostly get help with my trust issues with women. Link to post Share on other sites
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 You seem like a nasty person, always ready to be mean to people. Lovely, you're new here (as am I, but I've dealt with trolls before). Ignore guys/girls/whatevers like these, who spread negativity. Like the great wars/plagues/famine of our world, they too, shall pass. Link to post Share on other sites
CloudLiver Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 To mostly get help with my trust issues with women. But... you're married. You don't trust your wife? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 But... you're married. You don't trust your wife? I am married but I have been through the ringer in past relationships with women and I admit sometimes it makes me afraid for my marriage though that is getting much better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Share Posted April 3, 2011 Woggle I am sure your wife loves you very much! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Man, "the interrogate Woggle for even being here" thread. I think that probably 25% of married men would hop into a fling with you. That seems to be the going rate for those that step out. Link to post Share on other sites
highviolet Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Lovely, you're new here (as am I, but I've dealt with trolls before). Ignore guys/girls/whatevers like these, who spread negativity. Like the great wars/plagues/famine of our world, they too, shall pass. I think you're mean for questioning someone's reasons for being here. Link to post Share on other sites
MarlyStar Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 This forum would be a poorer place without Woogle. He's thoughtful, intelligent, and plays it straight. As for married men, OP, I wonder if all your travel is the problem--you don't have time to develop a long-term relationship maybe? (IDK, just guessing). There's a lot of married men out there looking to have affairs, even the non-beautiful like me trip over them left and right. I'm glad you aren't falling for it. Beauty is as beauty does. You aren't having any more problems finding a suitable partner than any other woman. And since coming to this forum, I realize men aren't having any more luck. It's hard to find the right significant other: for the beautiful, the ordinary, the older, the younger, the successful and the just starting out, and for both men and women. All you can do is just trust it will happen and will be worth it and life will unfold the way you want it to if you make yourself worthy of it and keep trying. Link to post Share on other sites
EasyHeart Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Yes, lots of married men are willing to cheat. So are lots of married women. But you're getting a skewed perspective. Obviously, 100% of the married men who hit on you are willing to cheat. But there are hundreds of millions of married men who DON'T hit on you. You're seeing the married guys who hit on you and not noticing all the married guys who don't. Link to post Share on other sites
Survivor12 Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 You seem like a nasty person, always ready to be mean to people. Just curious how you would know enough about the posters here to make such a statement if you've only been here a day or two? Could it be that a troll is back with a new name & persona? Link to post Share on other sites
Nexus One Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 There are so many men willing to have an affair behind their wives backs. I turn them down of course, though I had sex once with one when I was younger but I knew he wouldn't be able to give me what I want. Do you turn them down because they can't or will not leave their wive and get serious with you or because you don't want to mess with other people's marriages? Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Just curious how you would know enough about the posters here to make such a statement if you've only been here a day or two? Could it be that a troll is back with a new name & persona? I believe she is who she says she is. I don't think it's fair to question whether she's being truthful. This thread is in dire need of Tony's attention. And I have heard of many cases where a married guy pursued a pretty young woman. They can be pretty shameless about it. I think it's disgusting, but I also wonder if they experience any joy in their marriages at all. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Do you turn them down because they can't or will not leave their wive and get serious with you or because you don't want to mess with other people's marriages? It's a bit of a slap in the face for a woman to be hit on by a married man. Some of them take it as an insult. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Do guys like to have their cake and eat it? Would most men have sex with a beautiful women if they could get away with it? Yes and yes, with a few no's sprinkled in between. Link to post Share on other sites
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