MexicanBillBacker Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Stevie is gay! I am confused because some people are saying I need more clothes on and then woggle said I am not standing out from the crowds. Perhaps I should just give up for now. What will be will be so they say! Don't worry about it...You'll definately find someone. But steer clear from the club scene, you'll only meet *******s there. Hope for the best - you really seam like a great girl.
SummersEve Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) Yes you are cute girl, who has some things going for you, a rather useless bachelor's degree, etc. I would think you are a bit thick for modeling but okay if you say so. There are plenty of the same around. Usually if you are not doing well with the opposite sex, it is actually not because everyone thinks you are too good for them but because there is something about you that they don't like. You sound like a few guys I've met, who will do something like show you their photo albums of themselves when they were a fourth rate actor or something like that, then stand back with their nose in the air and wait for you to drop your laundry, hahaha. I am sure they too thought their problem was that all the girls (whose names they surely don't recall since they never asked) were intimidated by their superiority. When you meet a guy you like, try not impressing him, focus on him. Laugh and joke with him, make HIM feel special and interesting. That's my advice from reading your posts, anyway. Edited April 3, 2011 by SummersEve
MrNate Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 http://www.jupiterimages.com/Image/royaltyFree/80509370 :lmao: Well it seems my ass is clearly hairy
Hules Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) If you are looking for a meaningful relationship avoid the meat market (clubs). I used to goto clubs when I was a bit younger because my friends told me its the place to get chicks... . I quickly learned that the "chicks" there totally turned me off and would get massively ****ty if I shot them down. I avoid clubs like the plague now. Guys with substance (I would consider myself one) are not attracted to girls who dress like skanks . We want a girl who's a lady in public (Dresses somewhat conservatively, not saying be a total prune but don't look like your clothes could fall off you at a moments notice ). Where to meet guys who would be interested in talking about politics etc (which I love talking about ). Looks are important to me but in all honesty are secondary. If I don't like who you are on the inside no matter how pretty you are on the outside I wouldn't be interested. Been a self confessed nerd you would find guys like me at the following places. 1) Bookstores/Public Libraries 2) Probably at a coffee shop reading a book or something. 2) Classes at University (sometimes I sneak into lectures that aren't part of my field just because I'm curious ) 3) Clubs at University (though admittedly I'm only in one club atm I used to be in a lot more I'm doing fencing atm... because it's awesome? ) 4) Quieter bar's you know where you can actually sit down and have a meal/drink/conversation without the obnoxious DOOOF DOOF DOOOF DOOF music blaring in the background . Though I'm usually their with friends I have had more confident girls approach me when I got up to get more drinks Hope that helps Edited April 3, 2011 by Hules
musemaj11 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) Lol, this is a hilarious thread. She is a pretty girl. But honestly she doesnt sound very bright. Not that I dont know that the two rarely come in one package. Edited April 3, 2011 by musemaj11
Nexus One Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) If it's any consolation I would have the brassiness to approach a girl that would be deemed "too beautiful" by most guys or by society. But personally I have never ever even had the idea that a woman was too beautiful, that includes you. In my opinion you're not too beautiful, but then again like I said I've never considered a woman to be too beautiful. While I think the following women are beautiful, I wouldn't deem them too beautiful. So I would still dare to approach them: http://bit.ly/dZC2Ss If a woman I liked was a supermodel, celebrity actress or famous singer I would still approach her at an appropriate moment if I knew she was single. (I always check if a girl is single before approaching her.) I don't know if every guy would dare this though. Guys deal a lot easier with beautiful girls, than girls with beautiful men. Beautiful men get approached A LOT less by women than the other way around, because it's genetically ingrained into women to somewhat avoid the guys that they think would have too much options and hence would pull a "f*ck and run" on them. This is because if during the prehistoric era a man would impregnate a woman and he would leave, then the chance of survival for the baby would drop dramatically. So this got kind of ingrained into women and there is data that supports this. OkCupid for example showed that most women would PURPOSEFULLY approach guys that they deemed to look below average in terms of attractiveness. For men this effect was a lot less extreme. If it's any consolation I wouldn't be afraid of a girl like you. To be honest I've seen more beautiful girls than yourself. I think in your case, whether or not I'd hit on you would come down to your personality and intelligence. You'd have to win me over and convince me on those points, yeah really. You mention you're kind, so that's a plus in my opinion. You mention you do charity work. If you're genuine in that, then that's a plus too in my opinion. Long story short. I think you have to try to work for it instead of passively waiting for guys to come at you. And to be honest I think it would be better for you too, because in that way you can first find out if you're approaching a quality man. If guys hit on you, then initially you never know with what motives they approach you. Edited April 3, 2011 by Nexus One
Eve Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) You are hot. Like a 9/10. Just look for guys outside of clubs and bars. Maybe take a class, join a gym, or pick up a sport. Put yourself in new environments. OP, if you have given true pics, the above comment would be the best advice. Also take assetiveness classes to bring out who you really are and don't listen to or invite into your life anyone who isn't what you like to be around. People like to take a pop at attractive people. Be aware of this but don't get stuck on it... they probably cannot do any better than this. Mix with people who are able to be authentic, regardless of how they look but understand that because of your looks you will have greater choice within the dating pool. So, be specific about what you want and assert yourself within different environments! Clubs are mainly for one night stands. This can work out to be something more for some but really clubs are all about ego. If you know you are one of the best ones there already, you don't need to keep going back. Get involved in charity functions and maybe even do a bit of voluntary work somewhere if you want someone who has a well developed heart. All in all, be what you want to attract and don't listen to those who clearly have no clue; be ruthless and seperate the wheat from the chaff. Take cae, Eve x Edited April 3, 2011 by Eve
oaks Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I think I am too beautiful sometimes. You look nice enough. Maybe you come across as some sort of alpha-female and that might intimidate some men. Have you tried initiating things yourself?
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 LeaningIntoTheMuse;3324443]If you mean the actress Emma Watson, you're beautiful. Paris Hilton is easy, that's why guys like her. But the good guys, the guys that really matter, like the smart and conservative types. I just became more aware of this than I already was. I frankly find the Paris Hiltons of this world unattractive. They go off, make a sex tape, and become rich. While the smart and really sexy (not sleazy) women go off and become doctors and scientists, like Mayim Hoya Bialik, who is a real life scientist.lol...I want to be a doctor I'm chasing the music thing right now, but I just had this epiphany a few days ago.
Hules Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Doctors , Scientists = for me, I've dated a several Lawyers as well generally are very smart and attractive but have turned out to be completely insane so I'm trying to stear clear of them for a bit lol
ascendotum Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I think I am too beautiful sometimes. When I am out in clubs people just stare at me and hardly any men approach me because they think I won't be interested. What state/provence/county do you live in? Those men should be ashamed. I only ever seem to get the bald/short/tubby men come over who do it with their pals watching in the corner. Good on 'em. Though, looks like taking the inituative and having confidence didn't do the trick for these guys unfortunately. Do I have to be plain or normal looking like most women for a man to come up to me? Maybe wear old cardigans, old trench coat, and gum boots more often and also don't brush your hair. Same with internet dating. I don't use my real photos anymore as men just want to talk about my looks all the time, even if I change the subject to world peace or something. A pretty 18 yr old girl does not need to use internet dating to find a guy!!! There are exclusive dating sites for beautiful people that you'll need to get approved for. Maybe there the guys won't be over whelmed. For a more serious response, AmEricanWomann pretty much said what I feel.
SnowandStars Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 You're hot. You can afford to do the approaching.
Els Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Troll. Come on, guys. What woman joins a forum solely to post that she is too beautiful and to post pictures of herself in underwear? The saddest thing is that 8 pages of replies fell for it.
highviolet Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Troll. Come on, guys. What woman joins a forum solely to post that she is too beautiful and to post pictures of herself in underwear? The saddest thing is that 8 pages of replies fell for it. That's exactly what I thought, and then I got labeled a troll. sigh.
elaina Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I agree. If my ass gets touched one more time... Lol... you are too cute!!! I <3 My Little Pony... your avatar always makes me smile To the OP, you are gorgeous (if that's you in the pic) and no I don't think there's such a thing as "too beautiful" or "too handsome." I think you should just get to know guys you are interested in and initiate talking to them and let them know you are interested. Maybe they just think you aren't interested in them? Encouragement and friendliness really helps guys take the initiative! About the title, it reminds me of 2 songs lol... Right Said Fred: "I'm too sexy for my love Too sexy for my love Love's going to leave me I'm too sexy for my shirt Too sexy for my shirts So sexy it hurts " and Keri Hilson: "Don’t hate me cause I’m beautiful Don’t hate me cause I’m beautiful Doing the pretty girl rock rock rock" Those songs are awesome!!!
johan Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I think the better looking a woman is, the harder it becomes for her to find real trusting relationships. Pretty much all people perceive when they look at her is her physical beauty. Both women and men respond to it. Her personality and intellect are pretty much an afterthought most of the time. So a great-looking woman has to get used to women automatically resenting her. And to men being nice to her regardless of how she acts or what she says, or else they won't approach her because they are intimidated or count themselves out from the start. She also learns that her looks are her greatest asset, and she may decide that being good to people or being smart are not really necessary, so why expend the energy. Or if she values those things because she has high personal standards, she'll have to deal with the fact that they are still pretty much irrelevant in most of her everyday interactions. Getting respect is hard. Trusting people is also hard.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I think the better looking a woman is, the harder it becomes for her to find real trusting relationships. Pretty much all people perceive when they look at her is her physical beauty. Both women and men respond to it. Her personality and intellect are pretty much an afterthought most of the time. So a great-looking woman has to get used to women automatically resenting her. And to men being nice to her regardless of how she acts or what she says, or else they won't approach her because they are intimidated or count themselves out from the start. She also learns that her looks are her greatest asset, and she may decide that being good to people or being smart are not really necessary, so why expend the energy. Or if she values those things because she has high personal standards, she'll have to deal with the fact that they are still pretty much irrelevant in most of her everyday interactions. Getting respect is hard. Trusting people is also hard. ^^^ This! I have a friend that is absolutely gorgeous and a member of my church. I have seen guys just fall all over her ridiculous! She had to set up some heavy defenses day to day. It must really alter one's perception of the world.
sb129 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Troll. Come on, guys. What woman joins a forum solely to post that she is too beautiful and to post pictures of herself in underwear? The saddest thing is that 8 pages of replies fell for it. Yes yes I replied but I did think it had a whiff of eau de troll...esp now that she hasn't been back.
musemaj11 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 The ugliest and the most attractive women are the loneliest. Average and above average women get cream of the crops.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 I called troll first, on the ugly comment. But yeah, I was suspicious from the start.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 The ugliest and the most attractive women are the loneliest. Average and above average women get cream of the crops. ha ha ha, I must've been a real babe before i got married then.
fishtaco Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 You look like 70% of the young women out at the nicer bars/clubs that I frequent. I was just thinking the same thing. She's definitely pretty, but so beautiful that men will stay away from her? I think not. Plus remember, the picture was a modeling shoot, which means this picture was professionally done. Even I'd look halfway decent in a picture with professional help. Anyway, check out http://hotchickswithdouchebags.com/ The "hot chicks" featured aren't alway hot, but browse the archives and invariably you'll see random partying chicks that look pretty damn nice. Haven't been on this site for awhile. Apparently "Pumpy" is their latest legend.
Nexus One Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 (edited) Speaking of beautiful, this weekend I encountered a girl that looked like Audrey Hepburn, but with blue eyes. She's a brunette and even has the same hair style as Audrey Hepburn, see the lower image to see the hair style that I'm talking about: http://bit.ly/f0Pdjw She's a mix of French, Dutch, Israeli and Turkish. She's 21, speaks several languages and lives on her own and is still in university and she's single. I now feel kind of weird in my head, but haven't fallen into a crush...yet. I'm contemplating to make a move, because I know this girl will not be single for long, that's a given. However that would probably require us to cross our paths by chance, as I don't know where she lives, only the general area, which is a rather big area. Yeah, well that's basically it, just needed to get that off my chest. Edited April 4, 2011 by Nexus One
Girlygirl1977 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Speaking of beautiful, this weekend I encountered a girl that looked like Audrey Hepburn, but with blue eyes. She's a brunette and even has the same hair style as Audrey Hepburn, see the lower image to see the hair style that I'm talking about: http://bit.ly/f0Pdjw She's a mix of French, Dutch, Israeli and Turkish. She's 21, speaks several languages and lives on her own and is still in university and she's single. I now feel kind of weird in my head, but haven't fallen into a crush...yet. I'm contemplating to make a move, because I know this girl will not be single for long, that's a given. However that would probably require us to cross our paths by chance, as I don't know where she lives, only the general area, which is a rather big area. Yeah, well that's basically it, just needed to get that off my chest. It's nice you met someone you have a small crush on, but what stopped you from pursuing her when you met?
Thedude22 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 I mean you can always take the initiative and talk to the guy first. I know in my case I have no problem talking with/asking out gorgeous women but as far as approaching them and starting a convo, yeah I suck. I think being ridiculously hot can be a deterrent for having people talk to you sometimes just because people assume you get approached dozens of times a day and I'll just be guy #7 for the day. A less attractive women appreciates the effort more so sometimes we are more inclined to do it. In my case the few times I have every hit on a girl in a situation like this is either a ridiculously hot girl or a girl that really fits the style of women I like. If I get shot down who cares? I made the glorious effort for a prime piece of woman, getting shut down by a 6-7 ranked girl would depress me so I rarely do it.
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