LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 God, seriously a fight on a relationship internet forum. Stop it you guys, it's so lame and if any more girls see this you are going to be virgins for life. As is you are having an argument over who the bigger virgin is! Pretty pathetic, isn't it? I think it's time that I stopped letting Wayne Brady take this thread off topic.
highviolet Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 God, seriously a fight on a relationship internet forum. Stop it you guys, it's so lame and if any more girls see this you are going to be virgins for life. As is you are having an argument over who the bigger virgin is! Bwahahahahaha! :lmao: Lol, DOT.
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I'm in the same boat, and I'm not even all that attractive, but I'm above average.
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 This. If you want to be Hermoine Granger (total nerd for quoting Harry Potter, I know, but just bear with me), you can't act like Paris Hilton. Maybe this is my problem. I look more like Hermione Granger and I think that is more attractive than Paris Hilton.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Maybe this is my problem. I look more like Hermione Granger and I think that is more attractive than Paris Hilton. If you mean the actress Emma Watson, you're beautiful. Paris Hilton is easy, that's why guys like her. But the good guys, the guys that really matter, like the smart and conservative types. I frankly find the Paris Hiltons of this world unattractive. They go off, make a sex tape, and become rich. While the smart and really sexy (not sleazy) women go off and become doctors and scientists, like Mayim Hoya Bialik, who is a real life scientist.
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 There is nothing whatsoever attractive about Paris Hilton. She is proof that you need no talent whatsoever to have success and fame. I would date Snooki before I would date Paris Hilton and that is saying a lot.
Darren Taylor Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Paris Hilton, Snooki, Lauren Conrad. They're all trash. And the only men that go after them are trashy men.
sniffys Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 lol i feel like trolled.. sigh i was gonna beleive it but the first pic is a modeling picture for lingerie..the 2nd one isnt even the same.. you cant say that she has "slutty"clothes, if anything its for a portfolio ..
Knittress Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Paris Hilton, Snooki, Lauren Conrad. They're all trash. And the only men that go after them are trashy men. :>/ I sorta agree with this, and I'm sorta appalled that I do. If you think about it, in one way or another nearly everyone on this board is guilty of making massive generalizations about a great many people they have never met...
Darren Taylor Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 :>/ I sorta agree with this, and I'm sorta appalled that I do. If you think about it, in one way or another nearly everyone on this board is guilty of making massive generalizations about a great many people they have never met... The ones I listed are trash, generalization or not. Hilton is a party animal and probably a druggie. Snooki has a criminal record and Conrad at best is an attention whore. Everyone generalizes, even if we're not aware of it. But in order for a generalization to start, there has to be at least some truth to it.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I actually thought Lauren Conrad was pretty centered.
Star Gazer Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Woggle, here is me and my friend Stevie on a night out. Do I wear the wrong clothes to attract a hot guy then? http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=307loy9&s=7 You look like 70% of the young women out at the nicer bars/clubs that I frequent.
Star Gazer Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I actually thought Lauren Conrad was pretty centered. She is. I think s/he's got LC confused with Heidi Montag.
TouchedByViolet Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 You are hot. Like a 9/10. Just look for guys outside of clubs and bars. Maybe take a class, join a gym, or pick up a sport. Put yourself in new environments.
tami-chan Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Back to the topic: I think she is very pretty, probably just give off the "I am not available or interested"vibe or it might be because most men already think since she is beautiful she must not be single and don't bother to approach. Very few men have the guts to approach really beautiful women.
MrNate Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Tisk tisk. It's tough being gorgeous. I agree. If my ass gets touched one more time...
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I agree. If my ass gets touched one more time... http://www.jupiterimages.com/Image/royaltyFree/80509370 :lmao:
MrNate Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Well the one with my friend was taken by another friend!! See people don't believe I really look like it! Here is one my mum took on my camera phone: http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=i5uefq&s=7 Men can't be turned off by 'apparent attractiveness' if we never even get talking! mmm brunette with nice lips.. yummy. Psh, there's no point in dressing down or anything like that. Just sport it. The reason why I say is because I mean, eventually, some guy will step up to the plate. I'm going to stop talking now because I'm buzzing..
sb129 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I think you're gorgeous but not prohibitively so- so what if you are signed to a top model agency so are thousands of girls worldwide and they can't all be single! You do look quite young- maybe thats it?
AmEricanWomann Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 You're pretty, but there is no such thing as being too beautiful to get male attention. Everyone likes eye candy and I've never heard of a guy who said "I'd really like an unattractive girl." Ok, there was that one song many years ago, about making an ugly woman your wife, but that was satire. The truth is, nearly every straight guy wants a beautiful woman or at least would not be averse to being with one. So its not that your beauty that's driving men away, but there is something about you that negates the advantage that good looks usually bring. I don't know what it is. It could be that you look bored or mean when you're around guys and this makes them back off. It could be, as was already mentioned, the way you dress. It could be that you're giving off an arrogant vibe. As I said, yes you're pretty, but there are plenty of women as pretty if not prettier than you. I noticed that whenever someone on this thread has tried to point that out to you, you get very hostile and defensive and either say something nasty to them or try to argue why indeed you ARE just that incredibly gorgeous. If you're putting out that same attitude in real life, then the hot guys you're looking for are all going to turn and run the other way right into the arms of the girl sitting at the other side of the bar who's just as pretty as you, but who has a friendly smile and a better disposition.
sb129 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Well said americanwomann, thats exactly what I wanted to say. Conventional beauty isn't always the trump card when trying to attract someone- the whole package counts for alot. Lots of less than gorgeous people have no trouble attracting partners- there is alot of be said for ones inner beauty shining through and making you more attractive and approachable. People who smile alot and are interested in other people are automatically the ones people want to hang out with at a party.
Andy_K Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If you hang out with a guy at a club/bar, guys are going to assume he's 'with' you and not approach. As far as looks go, you're attractive but not intimidatingly so. As others have said there will be a number of girls at any bar or club you could go to who will be just as attractive. It's not that stopping guys approaching.
thatdog Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Couple of observations here... 1- like a lot of people have said. Looking for a meaningful relationship in a bar or club is a terrible idea. You will mostly just get guys hitting on you for sex. Especially if you dress like 'club princess' (eg short skirt, heels etc). Guys see this and think sex. (side note - i have the same problem with my gf. she complains about guys hitting on her in clubs but won't stop dressing like this because 'all my girl friend sin the club dress like this and if i dn't i'll stand out'. and obv all her friends have the same problems with pushy guys as well and complain (even the single ones)). 2- In the club/bar arena you might suffer from what my friends termed 'J-lo syndrome'. What i mean by that is J-lo used to be consistently voted the hottest or one of the hottest girls in the world. I don't know a single guy who didn't think she was hot. But I also didn't know a single guy who thought she was the HOTTEST. everyone has their own personal preference for what they find most attractive. tall/short/thin/curvy/etc/etc. everyone also knows what is meant to be beautiful. people like jlo and yourself (judging from the pics) have a very generic kind of beauty. All the guys in the bar will find you attractive but they will also usually see another girl that doesn't look as 'unobtainable' but actually attracts them more.
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