Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 With all due respect you can't put down other people for their looks and then ask people to look past yours. Also super hunks tend to go for more sultry and sensual type of women and your picture gives off the cutesy girl next door type.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Well yeah I was joking because he made a joke about me not having a big enough rack! Plus he put down every good looking guy by saying they don't like to talk about anything! Lean, what is wrong with calling yourself lovely? I raise lots of money for animal charities and have good manners. I'm sorry, I thought you were aiming it at everyone here who considers themselves ugly, not just at that particular poster. It would help to name particular posters, and use smileys, when being sarcastic. Otherwise people will think you're just being mean. And my point was that stating that ugly people can't view good looking people as having good traits, that is a really screwed up perspective. I know you were joking now, but if you weren't, that would be your problem right there. (And as far as charities, I donate and volunteer for a local pet rescue charity, Amnesty International, and Greenpeace. So your point being? Although if you want to discuss world peace, I'm probably too "ugly" and "nerdy" for you. )
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Woggle, here is me and my friend Stevie on a night out. Do I wear the wrong clothes to attract a hot guy then? http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=307loy9&s=7
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I know that was aimed at Woggle, but I'll say it again: If you want to be considered a "Hermoine Granger", don't dress like a "Paris Hilton." Your clothes are slutty, and says "easy lay right over here!" No wonder all the desperate guys are hitting on you. You're practically laying yourself out to them, saying "I am easy and will sleep with anyone." I have never quoted somedude before, but I agree with him here. Put some freakin' clothes on!
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Kind of. To get the cream of the crop you have to really stand out and while you are quite attractive there are tons of other women on any give night with that dress on. You also need to display something that goes beyond just physical. Hot guys have hot girls coming at them all the time. What makes you different than all the other attractive women?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 lol why don't you just date Steve? He's either gay, or not good enough for her. Or he's taken. If it's not gay or taken, that just goes to show that women are more picky than men lol. Any guy would love to have a model girlfriend...but she wants an intellectual conversation with an Andonis who has lots of money, probably a huge dick, and a flashy car. LOL women aren't picky at all. No, no sir!
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 lol why don't you just date Steve? Stevie is gay! I am confused because some people are saying I need more clothes on and then woggle said I am not standing out from the crowds. Perhaps I should just give up for now. What will be will be so they say!
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I would just smile and be kind. Anyone worth attracting will see that. I wouldn't really want to meet a potential partner at a bar/nightclub type environment. There must be some other interests that you hold where you could talk to a guy to get to know him.
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Stevie is gay! I am confused because some people are saying I need more clothes on and then woggle said I am not standing out from the crowds. Perhaps I should just give up for now. What will be will be so they say! Standing out is not just about sexing it up. There are tons of women who sex it up. What makes you more than just another hot girl to these hot guys?
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Being in a place that is kind of a 'meat market' kind of lowers the odds for a good, healthy meeting.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Look, what you need is to stop hanging out in bars, and start hanging out in libraries and places that intellectuals will be. A good looking "nerd" will not be hanging out in a bar. He'll be in the debate team, or running for some sort of political campaign, or doing something intellectual. Your problem isn't that you're too beautiful enough. It's that you're hanging out in a club (with a gay guy?), while all the men you want are hanging out somewhere else. And the fat, balding, old guys are probably drunks who live in bars. Why you want to be in that setting anyway is beyond me.
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Standing out is not just about sexing it up. There are tons of women who sex it up. What makes you more than just another hot girl to these hot guys? Because I look the same without my make up! I am kind and have a degree in History.
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Thank you Muse and Tiger. I don't go to sleazy places in general, I guess my life is just so busy flying around I don't have time for much meet ups apart from social. I guess I could go to a book group as I said. I just thought people meeting at hobby groups was just in movies!
Woggle Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Because I look the same without my make up! I am kind and have a degree in History. Plenty of women do and many people have degrees. What is in your core that would really touch their heart?
kalikula Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Can we see a picture from a normal camera? These don't seem real. In addition men may be turned off by your personality, no offense. You seem overly obsessed with your apparent attractiveness.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Actually, most people meet through networking or through hobby groups. Most people don't meet in bars, and if they do, their relationships don't last.
waynebrady Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 boohoo what a big problem you have Do you want to be with a guy? Yes? No? You are beautiful enough to get pretty much any guy you want if you wanted too if you just made the first move. It's hard to feel sorry for a beautiful woman who whines about men not approaching her when she can get any man she wants if she does the approaching. You won't get any sympthys if thats what you think. Also, beautiful women such as yourself tends to be really non-sexual... Basicly the more beautiful a woman is the more prude she is and the more she hates sex... So thats why atleast I would never want to be with a model even if I could. Beautiful women also tend to have a princessy attitude. Women such as yourself want the man to jump through hoops to get you and put in all the effort/take all the initiatives... because you think you're that good. Some men jumps through hoops and chases and does everything to get a beautiful model woman such as yourself.... Me though(and surely alot of other men) have to much self respect and to much pride to "jump thorugh hoops" to get a woman.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Thank you Muse and Tiger. I don't go to sleazy places in general, I guess my life is just so busy flying around I don't have time for much meet ups apart from social. I guess I could go to a book group as I said. I just thought people meeting at hobby groups was just in movies! Well I met my husband when he panhandled off of me so that may not be the advice you want to hear. Not just hobby groups per se, but somewhere other then where there is a range between hookups and relationships with relationships greatly in the minority. Now your career for the time being makes it pretty difficult to date and make strong social ties outside of your business right? So your spare time may actually have to go into strategizing. Perhaps a jogging or workout group etc. Plus many women meet their significant others through other women. Do you have any close female friends?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Ignore WayneBrady, OP. He is a known troll. In fact, put him on ignore. He's never offered any advice worthy of substance.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 boohoo what a big problem you have Do you want to be with a guy? Yes? No? You are beautiful enough to get pretty much any guy you want if you wanted too if you just made the first move. It's hard to feel sorry for a beautiful woman who whines about men not approaching her when she can get any man she wants if she does the approaching. You won't get any sympthys if thats what you think. Also, beautiful women such as yourself tends to be really non-sexual... Basicly the more beautiful a woman is the more prude she is and the more she hates sex... So thats why atleast I would never want to be with a model even if I could. Beautiful women also tend to have a princessy attitude. Women such as yourself want the man to jump through hoops to get you and put in all the effort/take all the initiatives... because you think you're that good. Some men jumps through hoops and chases and does everything to get a beautiful model woman such as yourself.... Me though(and surely alot of other men) have to much self respect and to much pride to "jump thorugh hoops" to get a woman. And that "self-respect" is what makes this poster strong enough to withhold temptation and remain a virgin while debasing others. Very very strong proponent of self-respect. OP pass over this "help." Often waynebrady's outlook on women and sexuality is very, shall we say, narrow and one-toned. But to each his own.
waynebrady Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Can we see a picture from a normal camera? These don't seem real. In addition men may be turned off by your personality, no offense. You seem overly obsessed with your apparent attractiveness. All women who are as attractive as her are. She and all other model type women are princessy and hates sex basicly to... usually. I bet she does anyway.
Author LovelyJublee Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Can we see a picture from a normal camera? These don't seem real. In addition men may be turned off by your personality, no offense. You seem overly obsessed with your apparent attractiveness. Well the one with my friend was taken by another friend!! See people don't believe I really look like it! Here is one my mum took on my camera phone: http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=i5uefq&s=7 Men can't be turned off by 'apparent attractiveness' if we never even get talking!
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 All women who are as attractive as her are. She and all other model type women are princessy and hates sex basicly to... usually. I bet she does anyway. And so what is your advice to the OP? Do you have anything that might help her?
waynebrady Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Ignore WayneBrady, OP. He is a known troll. In fact, put him on ignore. He's never offered any advice worthy of substance. What part of my post was wrong in your oppinion? You should stop thinking about me, it was absolutley pathetic when you tried to get me banned What a joke.
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