Ollie76 Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 So, my ex GF and I have been broken up for two months after a 4+ years relationship. Although, she was the one to dump me for reasons of me not taking our relationship to the next level (marriage?), she calls me on occasion while she is drunk. The latest incident happened last night. She blew up my phone several times but I didn't answer. Then, finally I answered. She told me she was drinking and kept asking me why didn't I put the extra effort into getting her back. Keep in mind that I want her back and I have told her this a couple of weeks ago. I laid all my feeling and intentions out on the table but she still felt strongly on her decision. I've been NC/LC and she's the one always initiating contact. I never did. WTF is really going on? How should I handle this?
betterdeal Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 Switch your phone off at night. Better yet, change the number. These drunk calls never mean anything and her problems are not yours.
TaraMaiden Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 WTF is going on? She's making drunken calls and rattling your chain. Throwing you breadcrumbs. How should you handle this? Accept no calls whatsoever, drunk or sober, unless it's to tell you she realises she made the biggest mistake of her life, is desperately sorry, wants you back and would do whatever it takes for you to forgive her and let her try again. Other than that, go complete, total NC and never let her speak with you again, and you block her off every which way possible.
Little_Bee Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 Don't answer her calls and switch your phone off as soon as she starts to call you again. Drunken calls don't mean anything and she is only playing with your feelings. Don't allow her to hurt you even more as she did already.
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