Eternal Sunshine Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 TBF we can take silence as compliance. Send :laugh:
threebyfate Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 ES, it's only fair to give him 24 hours. As far as the OP is concerned, he already knows why he's single.
DollWelch Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Like I've said to you before, Johan, it comes down to being true to who you are. It seems as though you've done (almost) done everything in the book and have come up with nothing (no woman). Question: On a date with a woman do you let your life speak for you or do you speak for yourself? I think if it's not your career or your persona that is getting in the way, then there must be something else. If you give it some soul searching, you'll figure it out. That -or you should give moving to another city a shot, that's if you want to increase your options and entail find Ms. Right.
MrNate Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Sorry johan, it took me a while to wade through the women gathering in front of you lol, but I wanted to say that, it seems like the only thing keeping you back is lack of action. I know in my case, personally, its part of my dilemma because I have prioritized things ahead of this. Getting a hold of my financial life, and self sustainability are my priorities, and substantial progress has been made...'Disregard women, Acquire currency' is my motto for now I should say. But yes, action, action, action. After all, nothing was acquired only through thinking.
tinktronik Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Pictures! Pictures! Pictures! The crowd is demanding them Johan. In all seriousness, you just have to make yourself available. Open yourself up to a possibility that anything is possible to be a good option, a great option, and let it come to you. As long as you are closed off to emotional connection it just won't happen. Get involved in things you love to do. There are some pretty darn good girls everywhere, not infallible ones, not perfect ones, but pretty good ones with basically good hearts that try to be happy and would love to be happy with you. You just have to be able to see them.
Crimesoftheheart Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I think you're scared, and you need to stop worrying that things will go wrong because they MOST DEFINITELY WILL and then you need to go out and love someone anyway. That is a great quote. So true.
Taramere Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 You must free yourself from this blight that is dogging your life, Johan. Kill it. Kill it with fire.
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