Stickyis7 Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 A guy I dated for 7 years text me and ask me not to ever talk to him again. Don't call him nor text him. No explanation or anything. So of course as upset as I was considering this guy was my soulmate. We talked about everything from living together to marriage. As a result I changed my entire program because I didn't want him to know my whereabouts. I stopped communicating with anybody he knew because he would continue to pry into my business asking several questions about what I was up to and who was I dating?He woulld see me relatives and just start a conversation regarding me. Why would someone who is not interested in you continue to ask people your whereabouts or still keep your name in their mouth, when its obviously an issue?why wouldn't they communicate with you? Why talk thru other people?
Movingthrough Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 A guy I dated for 7 years text me and ask me not to ever talk to him again. Don't call him nor text him. No explanation or anything. So of course as upset as I was considering this guy was my soulmate. We talked about everything from living together to marriage. As a result I changed my entire program because I didn't want him to know my whereabouts. I stopped communicating with anybody he knew because he would continue to pry into my business asking several questions about what I was up to and who was I dating?He woulld see me relatives and just start a conversation regarding me. Why would someone who is not interested in you continue to ask people your whereabouts or still keep your name in their mouth, when its obviously an issue?why wouldn't they communicate with you? Why talk thru other people? Hes immature and jealous. When you text someone saying dont do this or that ever again youre basically hinting that you want them to chase you. He sounds kind of manipulative and does other actions to "get" at you. My ex showed the world she was happy and great with her new guy, yet still talked about me behind my back, and went to great lengths to "block" me online when i havent talked or responded to her in months (like your guy is doing). I feel the same way though, if you are going to say you dont care then have a nice life, keep my name out of your mouth and move on. I would stay mature like your doing and not even remotely answer or deal with any of his stuff.
Author Stickyis7 Posted April 2, 2011 Author Posted April 2, 2011 So true. When he text me I was in Miami on a boat crying~almost ruined my trip~i really think his plan backfired because he assumed I would act a fool. Like some women do. He continued to call a mutual friend of ours to ask her what I said? And was I upset? Crazy? Since its been almost a year he had been asking about my dating status,Why does it matter?I don't inquire about his and I'm in school so I'm pretty busy.I recently had to contact him for a favor and I ask him to stop by...$he proclaimed to be on his way but never showed up. I felt stupid 4 calling him because now he feels important again. Since he didn't show up...I text him a few days later, Thanked him for the advice,wishing him well,love u always.... It blows the mind of people when your nice to them. Regardless. He most likely assummed I was mad but I wouldn't give him the satisfaction.He might be real pissed now.LOL.
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