Hopeless Girl Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Weve been apart for 2 weeks and I cannot be anymore indifferent to him. 3 days after the break up we texted and stuff then i met up with him last monday and he told he was confused he didnt know bla bla and he knows I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. So I played it well , after that day I dont text him. I received two texts from him and COMPLETELY IGNORED THEM. Today I received one of him asking "what was i gonna do today" and he told me to go to this hang out bla bla (this guys is not ur regular type, hes one of the good ones trust me) , anyways i answered "ill let u know" then he said "well ill tell u later if i crash" cause he was busy doing something and yea thats it. Do u think i should go? Cause I dont wanna play games. I thinks hes really thinking things through and I dont wanna play heart games with him. He made a mistake and I think hes missing me and wants me back.
butterfly2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 sure you should go and have a great time. He obviously wants you there and is looking for your support. I just wouldnt bring up any relationship issues tonite.
depplover_1980 Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 Absolutely not. You are now at a crucial stage with him, it is now the most important time for you to hang fire as such. Until he actively expresses an interest in reconciling, you are putting yourself at risk of being dragged right back to how hopeless you felt previously. He is probably feeling horny and lonely, so he is intrigued to see what he can get out of you. If you don't go, then he'll take you seriously and know what he has to do to win you back. Otherwise all the power will be back in his court.
Leandro Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 I agree with Depplover. The break up is still pretty fresh.
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 2, 2011 Author Posted April 2, 2011 Yea so I went with my friends cause thats a usual hang out for everybody and yea I bumped into him. He was stupidly drunk and I grabbed him by the arm and told him to show some respect cause he was acting like an idiot. So i left kept hangin and he called me and begged me to take him back. I told him Ill think about it.
depplover_1980 Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 Yea so I went with my friends cause thats a usual hang out for everybody and yea I bumped into him. He was stupidly drunk and I grabbed him by the arm and told him to show some respect cause he was acting like an idiot. So i left kept hangin and he called me and begged me to take him back. I told him Ill think about it. Nothing like a drunken ex being an idiot to put you off him. So that may be the only good thing to come out of it!
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