Cee Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I've been thinking about communication with my BF lately. When I was single, I kept most things to myself. I didn't call my friends every day and unload. Instead, we'd go out once or twice and week and catch up, laugh, discuss problems, etc. Now that I have a BF, I am not sure if I'm supposed to tell him a lot of stuff. I like sharing with him, but it's not something I absolutely need to do. It's hard to break the habit of keeping most things to myself. Like if I have a bad day, I don't talk about it usually. I let the feelings pass and I'm good as new in the morning. He hasn't complained about my communication style, but I would like to open up more so we can be closer. Does anybody have any wisdom about the boundary between privacy and sharing with your BF/GF. Thanks.
MistaDynamic Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 You sound like the perfect women!! You need to teach that to other women...and I'm being serious. Write a book, produce an audio series. Women need to learn this type of behavior. The incessant need to talk by women always drives me crazy and usually it involves nothing of any importance. Th only problem I can see by your communication style is if you purposely don't tell him things he needs to know or hide what you really think about something. One of the worst experiences I had with a woman was this broad who would constantly figure out what I wanted to hear and just say that. Rather them tell me what she was really thinking or as she said "I don't lie I just don't tell you everything". As long as you don't do that you should ok and if your boyfriend really had a problem he would tell you.
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