CompletelyTorn Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 I am in love with two men. One, who was supposed to be mine, is getting married to another woman. So should we scratch him? Probably. I only have leftover feelings of love for him. The other, I barely know. In fact, I've never met him face to face. All I have are words and pictures. I fell fast, too fast. I don't think he knows, and I don't know if he feels the same way. Should I tell him? Will he think I'm crazy? I don't want to lose his friendship. I know it is impossible for us to date now because of the distance... but I have never felt this way about anyone. My situation is so screwed up right now. Please, tell me I'm temporarily insane and it will all go away soon or something. I just wanted to... post this. Helps me get my own feelings together. -Torn Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 Please, tell me I'm temporarily insane Something like that. It is easy to fall for a clever wordsmith. It is easy to believe what a person tells you about himself, and it is easy to believe that what a person tells you about himself is the whole picture. Pretty soon, using the few pieces you have, you create an image of him. Problem is that you only have a few pieces, and you have used your imagination to fill in the rest. You want, badly, to believe that he is all you think he is. Chances are that he is, but chances, unfortunately, are equally good that he is not at all. You have fallen in love with a fantasy you've created on these flimsy foundations. Don't tell the guy anything about what you feel. Meet him. Spend time with him. Then you'll know if he's someone you could love. He could turn out to be extremely different from what you think. Link to post Share on other sites
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