turokturok5 Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 So my best friend likes my ex. Before i even started dating her, i would avoid getting close to other girls, just incase the girl whom i liked found out and she did have feelings for me and hearing about me getting close to other girls would change her mind. We got together eventually and she dumped me after 2 months, we've been broken up 2 months but i still have feelings for her. My best friend, who admitted he liked her for a while because she seemed "cool" told me he wouldn't ask her out because he valued the friendship he had with me and that he wouldn't put it at risk. Tonight, he was dirty dancing with a girl at a party. Afterwards he started raging saying she was hot, but acting like a slut made her unattractive. He pretty much named every quality about my ex and that was what he wanted in a girl. Afterwards, goes back to the dance floor and dirty dances with another 3 chicks, gets really close to another girl and starts kissing her head and such. Later on he starts having a sook about my ex. He said "i asked her if she wanted to do something but she didn't seem keen" didn't say it to me, he said it to her best friend, her best friend replys "look she does want to do something she is just scared" they go off with eachother and start talking about her for an hour, i was pretty furious, they both know i still have feelings for her. Anyways after having a 1 hour sook about how he wants to get together with her, he is on the floor with 2 other girls with his legs wrapped around them...he eventually starts throwing up everywhere, i have to carry him to my car, where i am putting things in the boot and he slams my elbow in the door, while vomitting i have to take him home, unlock his door, take him to bed and lock up his house again before going home. It just really pisses me off how she can like him when he acts like such a player. He is generally a nice guy, but he is always swearing/being sleezy around other girls. He also recently said to her friend, who told me (she tells me everything, i don't ask she just spills because she thinks i have "the right to know" about what he is doing) that he liked my ex because she was "cool" but this other chick he has always liked (she has a boyfriend) was hotter and he could talk to her about anything. ITS SO FRUSTRATING!
Memphis Raines Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 It just really pisses me off how she can like him when he acts like such a player. thats what women go for. then when they get played, they go crying to someone about how they can't find a nice guy. best not to worry about the type that go for the players.
silic0ntoad Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 You're friend also isn't much of a friend. He's using you. Guys have a code. If a friend wants to get with your ex, and they want to be legit about it, they will ask your permission. This is guy code. He is breaking the code by being shady about it, and using you to his own ends. Ditch him and forget about her. Less dead weight leaves more room to move on, man. Honor the code, honor your friends. Pretty simple, but the guy is a scum bag and will use your ex as he did to you.
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