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Girlfriends Commitment Issue??


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Ok i am a 19 y/o male dating a 17 y/o female. She is still in high school, i am currently in some college classes. We met about 7 months back add before now our relationship flowed so nicely. We deeply had feeling for each other and missed each other to the point where we saw each other everyday. Just recently we had spoken to each other and my girlfriend admitted to having a commitment issue, she calms that she is so young, and she likes to flirt with guys, because she is boy crazy. She states that she still loves me and is happy with me but doesn't want to hurt me. Further more she believes that i love doing my occupation more than i love her and had admitted that she is jealous of it. The other day we both agreed to take a break and not see each other but only once a week. We still talk on a limited basis daily. So far it has been 2 full days and i miss her to death, and want to be with her. What do you think we could do to remedy this issue? Is it something she will get over with age? what to do?

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The issue is that both of you are too young to make a real commitment in this day and age.

 

Odds are your relationship with her is over and you should treat it as such.

 

Will she ever get over the thought process she's having with age, perhaps... She will be near 30 when that happens. Right now she wants to find out what else is out there, have sex with other men etc.

 

If you want her, you have to let her go, and find another woman... Then if she has any feelings for you she will come back. However by then you'll have another woman who will give you 100% of her undivided attention and may not want her back.

 

Happy Hunting.

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unfortunately that is what everyone says, i guess there is no such thing as finding the one when your young

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