mr.dream merchant Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 So my homeboy got back together with his girlfriend. His girlfriend has some cute friends, they all get down, you're typical easy broads I guess. I'm mad cool with his girlfriend, so half clownin half serious, I hit her up and told her to put me down with all her loose ass homegirls, that I'm not looking for anything serious, just looking to have fun, and no fat girls allowed, only bad ones. Today in the gym, my homeboy told me his girl didn't even attempt to put me down with her friends. He told me she said that I'm shallow, and that I'm just going to hurt her friends (?) lol. We laughed about it, and he was like "I don't see how you're going to hurt them since you're being honest from the jump, and of course, they ARE hoes, why would you date them?" I just agreed with a smile, cause I was laughing about it all. His girlfriend isn't dumb, she knows her friends are easy. And she knows I wouldn't consider settling down with that kind of girl. What kind of annoyed me is that she acted like she asked them to, and came back to tell me "Sorry bro, they're only down for romance." Again, I laughed. Romance? From whoooooooooooooo? Not me kiddo! I'm still laughing about it. Why do easy girls and their friends get offended when a guy is upfront and honest about just having fun with them? You're easy! Lmao, dating you is the last thing on my mind. Sheesh. I suppose I could be a jerk and make them think I want a relationship, but honesty is my approach. And the shallow bit made me lmao. Of course I'm shallow, I don't work my ass off in the gym 5 days a week just to hook up with some sloppy out of shape chick. Nooooo buenoooooo. Young women crack me up. I want to make a PSA. "If you're a loose woman, dating is the last thing most guys will want to do with you." Lol, some women need to wake up. Gah, even if you just want to have some stand up and honest fun they still want to feel special, get the hell outta here guy!
welikeincrowds Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 even if you just want to have some stand up and honest fun they still want to feel special It surprises you that people just want to feel special? Most of your post is about how little you think of these women. After reading it I still don't really understand what you want from them or why. The most successful guys who have lots of flings with girls do so because they have a wanderlust. Each one is special and unique to them and that's essentially why it "works". People who fake that appreciation are players. People who are up front about their lack of appreciation are a**holes, man, they're just a**holes. I'm not sure why you dislike them exactly, and I wouldn't bother with the negative feelings if I were you. But I don't need to sit here and tell you that you need to like every woman on the planet. Rather, just save yourself the trouble and don't even **** with those women. Just go for women you can respect instead. You'll have a lot more success.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Even "easy" women don't consider themselves easy, just like guys who try to scoop them up with such language don't think of themselves as "douchebags." They think that they are "fun" "open" and "cool." They want to hang out with guys that are "fun" "open" and "cool." Getting a girl to pimp out her friends isn't "fun" it's weird and shows your level of respect for them, even though you clearly think that they don't deserve it. I am sure that in their opinion they want to be viewed as "fun" "open" and "cool" as well, not just as 'expected' and 'granted' because you, like so many other men go to the gym. I wouldn't set you up with my sluttiest (fun, open, cool) friend.
sweetjasmine Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Sounds like a whole lot of butthurt about being preemptively rejected on behalf of some "hoes" who are supposed to spread their legs for anyone. Just go for women you can respect instead. This is good advice, but I get the feeling that for the OP, taking that advice would mean not going after any woman. Maybe he should heed it anyway.
Lilmisus Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Just because a girl said yes to every other guy, doesn't mean that she has to say yes to you. Some girls just like to have fun, but after a while they realize (like some guys) that it isn't getting them anywhere and want a real guy to show them real respect and love. No matter what, and no matter how she looks or carries or respects herself or her body, a girl is a girl at the end of the day, and just about every girl wants real romance and not just some jerk to have sex with, who's just like the rest. Plus, I don't know these girls, obviously, but most girls I do know wouldn't go for a guy who just called her up (especially her friend) and told them that they wanted sex. Not even the sluttiest girls I know would do that. Try going to the club, bar, or a party, and try actually flirting up a girl first and try to get some action there. Or try to get together with your friend and his girl and see if a friend of hers would tag along. Just saying "Hey I want sex, which of your hot friends can I bang tonight?" wont work, unless the chick has absolutely zero respect for herself.
TokyoG33kyGal Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 if they're easy why do you have to go thru your buddy's girl rather than asking one of her homegirls upfront?
tigressA Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Sounds like a whole lot of butthurt about being preemptively rejected on behalf of some "hoes" who are supposed to spread their legs for anyone. This is good advice, but I get the feeling that for the OP, taking that advice would mean not going after any woman. Maybe he should heed it anyway. This about sums it up for me...other than the choice words I'd like to write that would get me an infraction, but this "man" isn't worth that.
elaina Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Just saying "Hey I want sex, which of your hot friends can I bang tonight?" wont work, unless the chick has absolutely zero respect for herself. I would seriously have an issue with any guy who asked me something along those lines... which Dream Merchant, that's basically what you asked your friend's girlfriend... All the single female friends I have do want relationships with guys who want a relationship with them, regardless of whether they are "easy" or not.
johan Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I only laugh when something is actually funny. Every woman worth being with wants romance. I can't figure out what is funny about that. That's like saying how incredibly hilarious it is that they all wear shoes. She would have introduced you to her friends if she thought there was something attractive about you. Maybe she thinks your personality isn't that great. You should email her a link to the thread you started about the size of your wanker. That would probably change her mind.
mogul Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I just laugh when people type/speak the way you did in the post. How old are you? However, pleasantly surprised with proper punctuation for the most part.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I'd actually be embarrassed with my friend if he asked my girlfriend something like that about her friends.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I only laugh when something is actually funny. Every woman worth being with wants romance. I can't figure out what is funny about that. That's like saying how incredibly hilarious it is that they all wear shoes. She would have introduced you to her friends if she thought there was something attractive about you. Maybe she thinks your personality isn't that great. You should email her a link to the thread you started about the size of your wanker. That would probably change her mind. Very well said
GottaGetAway Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Maybe you're gay. You know, since you obviously don't like women very much at all. Try that.
stace79 Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 1. You sound insecure by writing an entire post putting down an entire group of women. 2. Maybe these girls you think are "easy" heard that you are not good in bed. 3. Maybe these girls think you're too dumb or lazy to talk to them yourself, since you asked your friend's girlfriend to do your dirty work for you. If you're so good-looking and manly, find your own hookups.
Els Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 So my homeboy got back together with his girlfriend. His girlfriend has some cute friends, they all get down, you're typical easy broads I guess. I'm mad cool with his girlfriend, so half clownin half serious, I hit her up and told her to put me down with all her loose ass homegirls, that I'm not looking for anything serious, just looking to have fun, and no fat girls allowed, only bad ones. Was that some amazingly failed attempt at a rap? =/
Untouchable_Fire Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Young women crack me up. I want to make a PSA. "If you're a loose woman, dating is the last thing most guys will want to do with you." Lol, some women need to wake up. Gah, even if you just want to have some stand up and honest fun they still want to feel special, get the hell outta here guy! Of course she is butthurt about your approach. Women who are easy to get into the sack hate it when you say it out loud. They want to just do their thing and not have to face any accountability, whether it be STD's, pregnancy, or you judging them. You are simply not supposed to be THAT honest about it when you approach them. It isnt' that you stated up front that your not looking for a relationship. It is the fact that you openly considered them easy. Have a go at them individually without your friends GF to make introductions... and just take a more normal approach. Personally... I don't mess around with that kind of girl. Most of your post is about how little you think of these women. After reading it I still don't really understand what you want from them or why. Ahem... S. E. X. Seemed obvious to me.
Untouchable_Fire Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Maybe you're gay. You know, since you obviously don't like women very much at all. Try that. Are you saying gay guys hate women?? If you have ever even met 1 gay guy you would definitely change your mind. Gay guys love women! It's Lesbians that tend to hate men.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Think lesbians are more concerned with liking each other then hating anyone else.
Untouchable_Fire Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Think lesbians are more concerned with liking each other then hating anyone else. Maybe... but I've never ever met a gay guy who hates women. However, every lesbian I've ever met from the lipstick kinds to the short hair and flannel wearing types all hated men to some degree.
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