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Most of the women James Bond loves end up dead or trying to kill him.

Wow that's comforting. :p

 

The only sure fire way to approach romance is with confidence to act, instead of fear and self doubt. It’s no big deal if this doesn’t work out.

 

Good advice.

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What are you confused about exactly? What does it matter who makes the first move I thought you wanted to ask her out?

 

I’m guessing you’re a teenager from how lost you sound and the details of your story. Why not ask a man you trust in your life for advice?

 

If you don’t have a father that you can talk to than maybe a coach of yours, or your older brother will do. Talk to some one you trust. The internet isn’t the greatest of places to go for advice when you are this confused about girls. It’s perfectly normal to be confused about all this stuff by the way.

 

Unfortunately, I don't have anybody else to talk to

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Unfortunately, I don't have anybody else to talk to

 

 

Ok, kid, I had given up on you until I read this. You've touched my heart with this one!

 

You absolutely must make a move Monday. For the last time, no lame excuses. All I do is hear lame excuses from nephew so I am tapped out here.

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Ok, kid, I had given up on you until I read this. You've touched my heart with this one!

 

You absolutely must make a move Monday. For the last time, no lame excuses. All I do is hear lame excuses from nephew so I am tapped out here.

 

It's been like a week since I last texted her and I'm feeling that urge.

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It's been like a week since I last texted her and I'm feeling that urge.

 

 

Exercise some self-discipline. Not all urges are good for you if give in to them. Diarrhea of the text is one of them.

 

Tomorrow you will achieve manhood and ask her out!

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Exercise some self-discipline. Not all urges are good for you if give in to them. Diarrhea of the text is one of them.

 

Tomorrow you will achieve manhood and ask her out!

 

 

I agree txting or calling for no reason other then small talk will likely annoy and unlikely impress her. Early on before a relationship is more cemented the only reason for contacting is if you guys got physical (made out or what ever) you call the next day and say you’re lucky to have a girl like her in your life or some other sweet sht so she doesn’t feel used for her body.

 

Obviously you have the opportunity to ask her out in person so that’s the route you should go. Yes, asking a girl out in person is the scariest but that’s also why it will give you the highest percentage of yes. Asking a girl out through a txt, internet msg, or even a phone call will make it very easy and push her toward saying no to a date. So ask her out in person as soon as possible. No big deal if she says no by the way. Also if you chicken out I wouldn’t beat yourself up, the beating yourself up is the entire reason you’re so scared. No pressure just have fun.

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