lance.dark Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 If a first date is going well, is it OK to start holding the girl's hand or is this too forward on the first date? Also, to end the night if it has gone well do you always go in for the kiss or just if it feels like she's waiting for it?
MistaDynamic Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 My thing is like Snoop Dogg "I don' t hold hands and I don't slow dance". For you you should hold her hand sometime during the date. It shows you can lead as man. No woman wants a weak man. Also if the date went well you will have an opportunity to kiss her before the date is over. If she is looking deep into your eyes and looking at your lips and then back to your eyes then she wants to kiss you. She wil also lean her body towards you. Waiting until the date is over to have a kiss is kind of akward. If you haven't done anything to touch her body(hold her hand,guide somewhere by placing you hand on the small of her back,hug her,etc) going in for kiss is a no-no. It's too akward. Alot of PUA game is crap but this may help you. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBLLVZL2JaA But don't do the PUA crap of hi fiving,thumb wars,patting the shoulder . Those things are creepy.
Hules Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I never hold hands on first date, first date is about finding out about each other not romantic gestures though I would suggest breaking the touch barrier in some way at least I find a friendly hug at the start of the date is a good way to do this, thats just me though. As for the first kiss well I play it by ear its usually pretty obvious if a girl wants to be kissed or not.
Author lance.dark Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 My instinct was that the first date is too early to hold hands, but maybe I'm just wrong on this point..
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