pj1970 Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 females: do you like giving? y/n? do you give even if you're not keen on them? after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? do you consider them equivalent to sex? or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing and sex? or more intimate than sex? do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) or are they just a bedroom activity? and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. guys feel free to answer if you feel you have verifiable info other than just being a sucker for whatever your girl says while she's actually holding back the vomit ("oohh yeah baby I love it *urp - gag*")
Thedude22 Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I do know girls hate the taste of semen. How much they hate it varies. An unbelievable amount of girls can deep throat too, *ahem* well if your member is 6.1 inches anyway...
Lilmisus Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I wouldn't call this "The Ultimate BJ Survey" but seeing it did make me laugh, so I'll humor you. 1.) Oh, yes. I remember saying after the first couple that there was no doubt in my mind that I was straight. 2.) I like giving them...so I don't know.. 3.) On our seven month mark was when we first did it. I only gave my recent ex one, so I have yet to say for future boyfriends, but I doubt it will take that long, or it while occur the same way. 4.)I wouldn't say it was on the same level as sex at all. Sex is way more intimate than the chica (or a dude..) just going down on her guy. It's somewhere in between kissing and sex I'd say. You get more frisky, but not nearly as intimate. 5.) That was pretty much how I gave my first couple. It was while he was driving my car after talking about it for about an hour in a parking lot, and after spending a while making out. It was actually a pretty intimate moment (not like the rest), because it was the first time for us, and the thrill of it was great. I kept worrying when he kept speeding a bit, which he sometimes did, but it was a great way to give my first one. Plus, afterward, was the first time that he really, straightforwardly, no questions asked, said that he was in love with me, so the memory is one I'll always hold onto. 6.) Swallow. I personally like the taste a lot..which surprised him.
Lilmisus Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I do know girls hate the taste of semen. How much they hate it varies. An unbelievable amount of girls can deep throat too, *ahem* well if your member is 6.1 inches anyway... I don't. But it really depends on how you take care of yourself and your diet. If you eat more junk food than healthy food, don't wash properly, and let yourself go, then it will have more of a bitter taste to it than a pleasant one. My ex ate a lot of bad food, but he kept himself in tip top shape, so it tasted great to me. I never got the hang of deep throating, tried it a couple of times, but he was more of around 7.5-8, so it wasn't easy..but it was fun trying.
tigressA Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 do you like giving? y/n? Yes, I like giving them. do you give even if you're not keen on them? N/A. after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? It comes with sex, so whenever I'm willing to sleep with a guy. That varies. do you consider them equivalent to sex? or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing and sex? or more intimate than sex? I consider them pretty much equal to sex. do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) or are they just a bedroom activity? Anything goes, within reason. and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. I have never had cum on my face or in my mouth. I'd like to try it with my BF but am still kind of timid about it. I usually give a BJ as a preclude to sex, but otherwise I finish with my hands. As an extra note, I've never tried deep-throating and have no desire to. I have a fairly sensitive gag reflex.
Duckduckgoose Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 females: do you like giving? y/n? YES! Very much so! I love to find out what makes him moan! And what really pushes him over the edge! And also what is just a bit of a tease to him do you give even if you're not keen on them? Haha I am keen on them lol after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? Hard to say when I will, but I know when I won't... and I won't do it before I see his results of an STD test to make sure he's clean. If he's not clean forget it. do you consider them equivalent to sex? or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing and sex? or more intimate than sex? I would put BJs as more than hugging/kissing, more than a handjob, but less than sex. do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) or are they just a bedroom activity? It would depend on the context of the situation. I wouldn't do it in public so to speak, but I would not save it for the bedroom either lol and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. Depends on how his cum tastes. I won't swallow. If he loses it in my mouth I will go spit and rinse my mouth, but if he has the control to let me know when he's about to blow I will have him finish on his own. guys feel free to answer if you feel you have verifiable info other than just being a sucker for whatever your girl says while she's actually holding back the vomit ("oohh yeah baby I love it *urp - gag*")
Duckduckgoose Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Oh yeah.. since I didn't see the deep throating part that some people are adding on... I've been told I'm pretty good at it. It took several tries with each guy to get where I could go around my gag reflex but it's been worth it to really put them out of their mind with pleasure
SmileFace Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 do you like giving? y/n? Yes, It is a control thing - but I won't go into details again... lol do you give even if you're not keen on them? Very keen after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? Depends -_- do you consider them equivalent to sex? or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing and sex? or more intimate than sex? I do not consider it as the same as intercourse. However it is sex and should be treated as such. If I am comfortable enough to have your dick in my mouth I am pretty sure everything else is fair game. do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) or are they just a bedroom activity? Doesn't matter to me. In someplaces I don't think we can get away without being clothed. and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. I seriously can't be the only chick here who swallows. I mean it is already in there, right? Anything besides my face and hair; everything else is fair shooting range ... lol
Feelin Frisky Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 ...everything else is fair shooting range ... lol Hahaha. I like your way with words.
chelle21689 Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 do you like giving? y/n? depends on mood do you give even if you're not keen on them? if the bf bugs me enough lol after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? have to be committed relationship and be comfortable with them do you consider them equivalent to sex? or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing and sex? or more intimate than sex? as intimate as sex but dirtier lol do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) or are they just a bedroom activity? ya and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. Ew no swallow...he can do it ne where on me I guess...my ex liked to do it on my face =\ lol i hated it
Lilmisus Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 do you like giving? y/n? and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. I seriously can't be the only chick here who swallows. I mean it is already in there, right? Anything besides my face and hair; everything else is fair shooting range ... lol Nah, I do too. I was talking to one girl friend about it just two days ago, and she said she'd only done it once and really doesn't like swallowing and probably wouldn't do it again. I personally don't see what's so bad about it and why so many are against the idea. It can get thick and can catch on my throat, but a little water and a few minutes later, it's better. Plus, like I said, it just tastes really good, and it feels like an accomplishment when I finally get it, ya know?
SmileFace Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Hahaha. I like your way with words. :) haha I told that to a guy I was talking to recently. He found it funny too, yet still called me a prude... THE NERVE!! lol
waynebrady Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Women hate giving blowjobs and they think it's gross. The only reason so many women do it is because their man pressures them to do it. A woman would never give a man a BJ by her own initiative and will. Women hate cum and think it's gross offcourse they don't want to swallow it. Women only do that in pornos... Not in real life. Women don't want cum anywhere near them much less swallow it.
Feelin Frisky Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Ladies, do you want to know the way to the secret garden of delight? I shared this on another thread but since the subject is here, perhaps you may want to know this. My ex engaged in a technique that drove me absolutely over the edge. But unlike other sexual techniques the objective here is NOT to approach or achieve orgasm. It is to zero in on the spot where orgasm contractions happen and get that spot all energized on its own. The feeling lasts as long as you do it. There's a chance of producing soreness so the guy has to speak up if it starts to go there. Here it is: With him on his back lay down on his left side at a right angle rather than next to him. Hold his Johnson with your right hand but keep your finger tips loose. Put your head under and press his dick against your slightly open teeth. There is a spot that is only an inch long at most about an inch back from the frenelum on the bottom of the penis. This is where the contractions happen that are so pleasurable during orgasm. Gently rake your open teeth back and forth within that small area so that the opening in your teeth will be running along the path of the semen flow. Stop every so often an give a little tongue or lips to break up the routine and let him recover a little. The longer this keeps on the more intense it gets. It is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo excruciatingly great. Just find the zone and learn it. Don't go exploring with teeth elsewhere unless he want you to. But right there is dope. I called it getting "chewed". It's gentle and there is only a suggestion of danger. But if you do it right, your guy will go freaking ga ga.
waynebrady Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I do know girls hate the taste of semen. How much they hate it varies. An unbelievable amount of girls can deep throat too, *ahem* well if your member is 6.1 inches anyway... Indeed. It's not hard to understand why either... I try to imagine what it's like myself and it seems gross. It's probably like swallowing raw egg white except from another persons genitalia's from the same place where pee comes from... Pretty gross. And I'm a guy so I'm not prude like women are. They think it's ten times as much grosser.
waynebrady Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 :) haha I told that to a guy I was talking to recently. He found it funny too, yet still called me a prude... THE NERVE!! lol You're a woman, you're a prude and sexually conservative by default.
EyesWideOpen Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 females: do you like giving? y/n? With my previous partner I hated it (he had this way of making me feel completely objectified, so it was just sort of...ew) With my current boyfriend, though, I actually like it. He makes me feel more respected, thus I don't mind at all...and I actually really like watching his reactions. Complete turn on. do you give even if you're not keen on them? Routine part of foreplay. after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? Uh, that would depend on the guy. With my boyfriend - together maybe a month or a little more? With a guy who seemed preoccupied with it...a helluva a lot longer, if at all. do you consider them equivalent to sex? or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing and sex? or more intimate than sex? Equivalent? No. Precursor to sex? Yes. More intimate? Um, probably not. But pretty darned intimate. do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) or are they just a bedroom activity? Usually just a bedroom activity. Anywhere he would have to unzip and drop trou for would probably be too messy to make it actually finish it off. and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. *scrunches nose* I'll finish him off with my hand, thank you. The taste is...well...not great.
EyesWideOpen Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Women hate giving blowjobs and they think it's gross. The only reason so many women do it is because their man pressures them to do it. A woman would never give a man a BJ by her own initiative and will. Women hate cum and think it's gross offcourse they don't want to swallow it. Women only do that in pornos... Not in real life. Women don't want cum anywhere near them much less swallow it. I see now that this guy is an idiot who is bent on just enraging people with baseless accusations. Wish I didn't bother to respond to the BS he posted in another thread.
waynebrady Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Nah, I do too. I was talking to one girl friend about it just two days ago, and she said she'd only done it once and really doesn't like swallowing and probably wouldn't do it again. I personally don't see what's so bad about it and why so many are against the idea. It can get thick and can catch on my throat, but a little water and a few minutes later, it's better. Plus, like I said, it just tastes really good, and it feels like an accomplishment when I finally get it, ya know? Ok. It's obvious by now. You really are a guy pretending to be a girl, and you get off by pretending women like to swallow. Get real. I have been trying really hard to understand why a woman would like to do blowjobs and swallow cum and I can't come up with one good reason. Pee comes from penises. When you are going down on a man you have your mouth in the same place were pee comes from. Penises are genitalia, it has a certain odor about it when a man gets aroused. No matter how many times I shower and wash it per day, everytime I get aroused it's gets a certain odor. Maybe it's because I'm not circomsized I don't know but I assume it's natural. Why would a woman like this?
SmileFace Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Pee comes from penises. When you are going down on a man you have your mouth in the same place were pee comes from. Penises are genitalia, it has a certain odor about it when a man gets aroused. No matter how many times I shower and wash it per day, everytime I get aroused it's gets a certain odor. Maybe it's because I'm not circomsized I don't know but I assume it's natural. HAHAHAHA ! Vomit comes from a mouth **** comes from an ass Blood comes from pretty darn close to a vagina What exactly is your logic here? Haha, buy some soap!
waynebrady Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 It's hilarious when threads like this get created. This thread is consists off: A few guys who wishes women liked giving blowjobs and pretend that they do. A few guys pretending to be women who likes giving blowjobs. It really is pathetic. Listen guys... GET REAL.
EyesWideOpen Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 It's hilarious when threads like this get created. This thread is consists off: A few guys who wishes women liked giving blowjobs and pretend that they do. A few guys pretending to be women who likes giving blowjobs. It really is pathetic. Listen guys... GET REAL. You're seriously a jackass who has admitted to NEVER having been with a woman. And I quote (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3319930#post3319930) I have never kissed a girl so I don't speak from my own experience. You either have no idea what you're talking about, or you're sole purpose on these forums is to enrage women (which I suspect is the case, thus I report everything you post). Just go away.
elaina Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 do you like giving? y/n? Yes!!! after how long of knowing/dating a guy are you willing to give? I prefer to wait till marriage. do you consider them equivalent to sex? Not really, but I understand why people consider oral sex to be...sex. or as being somewhere between hugging/kissing Lol that's funny it's most definitely waaaay nearer to sex than to hugging/kissing! and sex? or more intimate than sex? Any kind of sex - oral, vaginal, anal is VERY intimate. do you consider it fine to give one while both you and the guy are clothed and the guy just unzips and drops trou (in a car for ex.) Yep. When I was married, my exhusband and I did that in the car a lot... very exciting It's a good thing he is an excellent driver! and what is your preference for handling the guy's cum? swallow? dribble? jacking? face? have the guy finish by jacking? other? there are probably a million options of which I am not aware. Swallow
Lilmisus Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Ok. It's obvious by now. You really are a guy pretending to be a girl, and you get off by pretending women like to swallow. Get real. I have been trying really hard to understand why a woman would like to do blowjobs and swallow cum and I can't come up with one good reason. Pee comes from penises. When you are going down on a man you have your mouth in the same place were pee comes from. Penises are genitalia, it has a certain odor about it when a man gets aroused. No matter how many times I shower and wash it per day, everytime I get aroused it's gets a certain odor. Maybe it's because I'm not circomsized I don't know but I assume it's natural. Why would a woman like this? You caught me I have nothing better to do with my life than come on here a couple times a day, making up fabricated tales of my love and sex life while pretending to be a girl. I'm really a 30 year old, 400 lb man who has never even kissed a girl - unless you count my mom, that is. Get real. Lol. Your "accusation" did make me laugh though. I can assure you that I am a 20 year old college female who very much enjoys giving blow jobs. I would even offer them to my ex every now and then when we could do it, and he was all for that. It just makes me feel great to see that I can get him excited like that with nothing but my mouth and hands, and to "taste sweet victory" when he was done. I'm just a straight chick, and I dig it. But just as you can't comprehend why girls want to go down on guys, I honestly don't get how guys can like the idea of going down on girls. I mean, it feels great of course, and I'm sure to them it's great, but I just can't wrap my mind around it. If you try to imagine what all comes from a girl down there while trying to get frisky with her, then I guarantee that you will stay a virgin for the rest of your life from being so sickened by it. It's just called sexual orientation. Those who prefer a certain gender and what they have to offer don't spend their time worrying about what else comes from "down there" but more time not worrying about it and pleasing them.
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