Forman Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 (edited) I don't know what's going on with me. This is the first time I've ever had such strong feelings for a girl. This girl has been a friend for a while now. She was never the type to hook up with right away or go out with guy after guy. She's a very sweet and quirky girl who isn't a knockout by any means but still has a certain cuteness about her. It took me a while to develop an interest in her, but it's incredibly strong now. I look at her and I think she's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen, in so many ways. I've never had problems with women. There have always been girls who were attracted to me that I could go out with or hook up with when I wanted to. It wasn't hard. I have a lot of things going for me and worked very hard to get those things, and in turn women want to know me. But that means jack squat now. I don't care if the hottest woman I've ever met called me up, I want this girl and only this girl. I'm not even thinking about sex with her...I CAN'T think about sex with her. It's literally incredibly difficult to imagine us having sex. It's so much more satisfying fantasizing about dating, laughing with her, holding her, brushing her hair back, kissing her. It sounds so sappy and any of my friends would laugh if I told them this, but it's true. That's what I want...romance...with someone I can truly call a friend, not just sex. I've never had that before. I never saw the point, but it suddenly seems so great. No other girl matters now. I think there was a time that this girl was interested in me romantically, but I didn't do anything with her. Like I said, she didn't strike me as the type to hook up, and I didn't want anything more, but now I feel totally different. She still likes me a lot. I constantly make her laugh and smile. I'm always one to take charge in the group and liven the mood with humor if things are down or tense. I'm sure she sees other girls around me, and she probably hears their interest in me too. If only she knew that she's the only one I care about. What do I do? Do I be honest and tell her how I feel? Ask her out on a date? For once, I'm afraid of being rejected. I'm sure I'll get over it eventually, but it will be harder fall than any I've ever had. I'd really appreciate your input. Edited March 31, 2011 by Forman
lenny Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I wouldn't make any big proclamations yet but certainly ask her out. Don't let fear of rejection hold you back because you might miss out on a super opportunity. Be an awesome date, and boyfriend if that's where it leads and all should be well.
Author Forman Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 I wouldn't make any big proclamations yet but certainly ask her out. Don't let fear of rejection hold you back because you might miss out on a super opportunity. Be an awesome date, and boyfriend if that's where it leads and all should be well. I'm definitely going to ask her out. Even if I crash and burn I'm going to do it, because 20 years down the road I don't want to be regretting how I didn't ask out that one special girl I met in college that really stunned me. And I guarantee you that if she accepts, then I'll do great. She enjoys me very much as we are now. She'd have a blast on dates - I'd make sure of it, and as much fun as she would have, I would be loving it more just seeing her laughing and smiling. I was hoping to see her tonight, but she wasn't where I expected her to be...that's why I had to have some place to let out my feelings. I'll see her on Friday definitely.
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