joshextreme Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Any time my mom and I would get into an argument(which is quite frequent) I use to be able to text my ex and everything just seemed to be better when me and her were together. Now my mom and I get into an argument and I can't talk to her and it hurts really bad. That is the only time I miss her is when this happens. Like all I wanna do is call her and hear her say everything will be alright. I know it sounds lame but that is what got me over my relationship with my mom Now when it comes down to it I dont even realize what my mom and I are arguing about, I just realize that I miss my ex more than anything and I can't figure out what to do about it.
Hopeless Girl Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 aren't you the guy that dumped his girlfriend?
Author joshextreme Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 aren't you the guy that dumped his girlfriend? no. it was mutual but then i wanted to get back together and she didnt my story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t269539/?highlight=ending+badly
TryingtoUnderstand32 Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Any time my mom and I would get into an argument(which is quite frequent) I use to be able to text my ex and everything just seemed to be better when me and her were together. Now my mom and I get into an argument and I can't talk to her and it hurts really bad. That is the only time I miss her is when this happens. Like all I wanna do is call her and hear her say everything will be alright. I know it sounds lame but that is what got me over my relationship with my mom Now when it comes down to it I dont even realize what my mom and I are arguing about, I just realize that I miss my ex more than anything and I can't figure out what to do about it. I know the feeling. I was looking at my cell tonight as if my ex would make his nightly call,..and forgot... its really over.
Hopeless Girl Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Oh, ok. Well just do NC. I know how you feel. my ex ex boyfriend I was fighting with my parents after the break up and all I wanted to do was call him. It happens. Trust me the least thing you wanna do is make her pull away. I did that with mye x ex and he still after 1 year and a half has me blocked on FB. Just relax and enjoy ur life. You know what I like and seems sexy to me a guy who's hurt but still has pride. If u let her know that u still love her but u love u more she'll be melting. Just act cool and have fun.
Author joshextreme Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 I know the feeling. I was looking at my cell tonight as if my ex would make his nightly call,..and forgot... its really over. yeah like i miss the emotional support probably more than anything. like i could talk to her but i know that im gonna get the "everything will be alright" when really i want to hear "everything will be alright, babe." when i think about this its also the connection that we had that i miss. i cant have that connection as friends. oh well guess ill continue to go NC.. :/
Fufu Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 You will get over this not so pleasant period. Stay strong, every NC day passes, you become stronger.
Author joshextreme Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 Oh, ok. Well just do NC. I know how you feel. my ex ex boyfriend I was fighting with my parents after the break up and all I wanted to do was call him. It happens. Trust me the least thing you wanna do is make her pull away. I did that with mye x ex and he still after 1 year and a half has me blocked on FB. Just relax and enjoy ur life. You know what I like and seems sexy to me a guy who's hurt but still has pride. If u let her know that u still love her but u love u more she'll be melting. Just act cool and have fun. i have her blocked on fb too. the only time i have to see her is school. i also deleted her number. to do the part in bold that would involve breaking nc. unless she just happens to come around. ive been NC for 4 days and ive broken it twice in the past for reasons that i got tricked into. If i never broke NC id probably be on week 3.
Hopeless Girl Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 No, you already let her know that you love her I thought u said that on your letter. Don't break NC.
Beeotch Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Although it feels like it...you don't "need" your ex and although hard, you will be able to overcome and get through this. Find other activities/friends to help you take your mind off your problems. It just feels like she is the only one who will do...but trust me...as time goes by and you're weaned off of her, you will see such is not the case.
Author joshextreme Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 You will get over this not so pleasant period. Stay strong, every NC day passes, you become stronger. yeah. i accidentally held the door open for her today at school.. lol. i saw someone coming but didnt know who so i just held the door and who do i hear say thank you? my ex. i didnt say anything back.
Fufu Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Holding the door is fine and you didn't know who is behind, being gentlemen is fine You are doing great, keep it up ^^
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