CloudLiver Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 "Porn is a symptom of a problem, not the problem itself. A sexually satisfied man has no use for porn." - Pook Satisfy your man, and he'll stop watching it.
SummersEve Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) I don't agree with that, Cloudliver. I am a woman and my husband satisfies me but sometimes I just want solo with my own mental images, not instead of but as a snack between meals, lol. Now I'm sure I would want that more if he did not satisfy me but no, it would never put an end to it. Aside from that, sometimes he is at work or asleep or otherwise not available at that moment. I think men's porn is the same, it is not a competition, or a problem. Edited April 3, 2011 by SummersEve
Author nowrong Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 Well if you google Feederism it should tell you everything. That was quite an education. Thanks a lot but now I don't even know what to do. This will never be me. However, I just spent the weekend with him and he initiated sex with me twice which was very exciting because the majority of time I initiate it. I also know from conversations with him that he just doesn't have sex to be having sex. If we are having the slightest problem he can not engage with me so I guess things must be ok to keep having sex. I guess I should just let him have my fantasies and quit worrying but it really is hard to do.
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