brenda collins Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Most Women i know analyse men. They question why he isnt with her and why he hasn't called. I am beginning to wonder if men are after all simply straightforward. If a man is attracted to a Woman will he act in a straightforward way (Call when he says he will, stick to plans etc) If a man is making us question whether or not he is into us. Is the simple answer purely that he isnt??? Link to post Share on other sites
waynebrady Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Men are absolutley straight forward. If a man likes you, you will know it(unless the man is extremley shy). Men are not like women. Women must always play games and be vague and passive, if a woman likes a man... the man would never notice. Women like to play hard to get and do not want to admit to the guy that they like him. Thats the biggest difference between men and women when it comes to dating. Men are straightforward, takes the initative and are clear about their intrest. Women play hard to get and trys to make the guy jump through hoops to get her. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 People are individuals--they are not units of maleness or units of femaleness. I couldn't tell anyone in a million years what other men think or do and have that be accurate in any way. My attitude on the subject is to never lead on anyone I'm not willing to go to the mat for. And if I make the choice to go for it with someone, my word is gold. I just won't have irresponsibility on either party's part. Either it's this or it's that. There isn't any "yeah buts". That has contributed to why I'm older and still single but this is how it is and that is that. Strait forward illustrated. Link to post Share on other sites
PJKino Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 If somebodies showing limited interest to me i usually take it at face value that theyres limited interest in me from them and move on Link to post Share on other sites
Mrlonelyone Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 As a bisexual who has experienced romancing and being romanced by both genders... I can tell you with 100% confidence men are more straightforward. If a man likes you either sexually or for a relationship he will let you know in an overt way. They will stare...but unlike women they don't look away. They leer they walk over with their chest puffed out and they try to talk to you. Gay and straight men do this.. Women are more subtle more timid. They are like frightened bunnies compared to men. They will smile and giggle and look away and look back. They will hint their interest. They will make goo goo eyes at a man. They will indicate initial interest in every way except by simply saying so. I have also never known a man to play hard to get... be a "challenge" yes... but they never say "leave me alone" then expect a woman to "fight for them". Straight and Lesbian women do this. Bisexual, and/or transgender people mix these two polar opposites together in various ways. i.e. a male to female transsexual may be biologically "male" but will act like a woman in every way. A butch lesbian will act like a male in most ways...but flirt like a woman. Someone like me...I think I do both at the same time. Bottom line, the average man is more overt in showing his interest than the average woman. (mostly for reasons of cultural expectation.) Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Yes. Men are pretty simple when you think about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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