cutiec123 Posted April 3, 2004 Posted April 3, 2004 i have been seeing a guy long distance for about 3 months now .. i have visited 2 or 3 times and things always went well.. we have kept in touch and things still seem fine.. latley though.. he'll say o i will call you later tonite...ok? of course i say o thats will be great -- talk to you then.. but he doesn't call....i have never worried about this b/c i knew he'd call when he could ( certain situations cause him to not be able to call all the time which is fine with me... we have discussed these situations) but now i am worried... i miss talking to him... and part of me thinks he got his phone bill and the long distance was awful pricey.. so moneywise he is not calling .. which is cool by me .. i wil ask him about that if he calls back some itme haha -- i don't mind calling him -- i just don;t want to be obnoxious haha ...any advice guys ?? girls??? help me here haha
moimeme Posted April 3, 2004 Posted April 3, 2004 1. Call him 2. Ask him why he's not calling you. Ask whether it's getting too expensive.
agnf666 Posted April 4, 2004 Posted April 4, 2004 I just went through a similar situation last week. I have been in this long distance relationship with this guy for almost 2 months now, and he decided not to call me for a while. I was extremely pissed off, because it seemed like he was ignoring me. Maybe in your situation it just maybe about the long distance bill. When he finally called and apoligized I accepted it. So, how long was it since you called him? Sometimes, you have tocall them in order to get them to figure, "Wow, maybe I should call her!" So, if you haven't talked to him in a few days, call him and see what has been going on. He'll apoligize and probably give you a lame excuse. I know it is hard, because you have got a million thoughts going through your head like, does he want to break up with me, is he ignoring me, ect. I could rest until I figured out why he was did that to me!!! So, I hope you have better luck with this then I did!!!!
Author cutiec123 Posted April 4, 2004 Author Posted April 4, 2004 well its long ...about a week ago he didn't call for a few days... then called last sunday and said his phone ahd been cut off and he just got it worked out... then didn't hear from for a few days... sent a text to him thursday nite... then called fri nite and he said i got the text and was going to call you tonite... and he was busy i could tell so he said he'd call me later that nite... and he hasn't .... so it hasn't been long... but still i don't know how long it may be til i hear from him again ... do i call in the next few days? email? text... or leave it alone .. i may just leave it for a few...
agnf666 Posted April 4, 2004 Posted April 4, 2004 Here's what I would do. I wouldn't call him all weekend, like I did with my boyfriend. Then on monday call him. That's what I did. I left him a message on his cell and he called me the nexted morning. So, try that plan. I find that with this relationship sometimes communitcation is hard considering you never know what exactly the other person is doing at the time you call. He should take time and call you. When he does call or when you call him ask him what is going on, and as him how things are going. The thing with LDR is that we have to communicate with this person or we will just very uninterested because you can't see this person and the best you can do is talk on the phone. I'm almost to the point where I have to talk to my boyfriend atleast 4 or 5 times a week. So, how far away is he, are you sure there isn't any reason why he would not call you. Like something that your not thing that is a big deal. I was a wreck last week trying to figure out if I did something.
Author cutiec123 Posted April 5, 2004 Author Posted April 5, 2004 yeah thanks .. thats what i think i'll do ..... will let you know
priscilla Posted April 5, 2004 Posted April 5, 2004 I hate to break everyone's bubble here, but long distance relationships usually don't work. I wouldn't call him at all and see if he calls you. You have left enough messages. If he is interested in continuing your relationship, he will call. And, if he was interested he would make the time to call. If he doesn't call, then it wasn't met to be. But, don't sit around waiting for a phone call. p.s. if you decide to continue, he could always get a cell. most plans have free minutes after 9. That would take care of any money problems.
agnf666 Posted April 6, 2004 Posted April 6, 2004 I begining to realize that Long Distance Relationships don't work, my guy promised to keep intouch and stuff. He hasn't called me all week end. So, I think it is the guys turn to let them call us!!!!!! It is only fair, because if they are interested they will call. I hope your relationship works out alot better then my own. There is a way he could try to talk to you, but men are jerks!!!!
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