Helloween Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I got a number sunday night but no sure when its ok to hit up the chick....
Hules Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 A little more info would help a lot. Where did you meet her? how long have you know her etc?
hazelbanana113 Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 What I would do is wait a couple days, you don't want to seam too eager or too unhappy about it either. Just call her up and be like " Hey, I was just thinking about you and I was wondering if you'd like to go to dinner/movie/etc... with me some time you're available?" If she's into you, she will be super happy, because girls worry about if the guy is gonna call or not
Crazy Magnet Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Maybe a day or two. If you got the number Sunday you should really go on and call today.
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Haha, upon skimming the threads on the forum page my eyes jumbled up your username and your title for a second, reading: "I got a girls number on halloween in how many days should i call/txt her?" I was gonna say, dude, I think it's a little late! I'd say today. It's been a few days; send her a casual text or, if you're really serious about dating her, call her and ask her out. In this digital age where texting is such an easy way out, I am impressed when a guy has the balls to just call me.
Cee Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I agree about phone call > text. No guts, no glory. I'd call today to get a shot at a date Thurs - Mon.
waynebrady Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I don't have alot of experience(none frankly), But I'd call the day after. Calling the same day is just unesseary and intentionally waiting for a few days is playing games and taking it too serious anyway. Caring about that sort of things seems like game playing, thats something that women do. Not men.
chelle21689 Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I don't know why we wait when we know that the person is waiting intentionally not to seem desperate...almost everyone knows this, LOL. I'd say call the next day.
blackmagik Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I don't have alot of experience(none frankly), But I'd call the day after. Calling the same day is just unesseary and intentionally waiting for a few days is playing games and taking it too serious anyway. Caring about that sort of things seems like game playing, thats something that women do. Not men. Almost scary to say, but I agree with Wayne. I would usually wait until the next day. Playing games is just not my thing and really a waste of time IMO.
interfuse Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Don't wait. Call or text the next day after you get her number. I hate guys who wait more than he chooses texting over calling.
Dust Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 How did you get her number? Did you just randomly ask for her number because you thought her giving it to you meant she liked you? (a number doesn’t necessarily signify anything) Best case scenario you asked for her number under the premise of taking her out on a date type outing. If the outing is already planned for some time this week I would just make a quick call the day before to confirm time and place for meeting. Sounds like you just randomly asked for her number with out asking her out. That’s not a good way of doing things. (But better then nothing) You should have called the next day to invite her to do something. If she ignored your call, and you felt like trying again, you would wait the entire day you called and most of the next day at a minimum before trying again. Your goal is to come off as a respectable person. Waiting days to call is pointless. As long as you don’t annoy her with multiple unwanted calls and messages you did things right. If she rejects you don’t start thinking if only I had waited that extra day before calling, because most likely it will be the opposite. If only you had called sooner and set something up.
interfuse Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 How did you get her number? Did you just randomly ask for her number because you thought her giving it to you meant she liked you? (a number doesn’t necessarily signify anything) Best case scenario you asked for her number under the premise of taking her out on a date type outing. If the outing is already planned for some time this week I would just make a quick call the day before to confirm time and place for meeting. Sounds like you just randomly asked for her number with out asking her out. That’s not a good way of doing things. (But better then nothing) You should have called the next day to invite her to do something. If she ignored your call, and you felt like trying again, you would wait the entire day you called and most of the next day at a minimum before trying again. Your goal is to come off as a respectable person. Waiting days to call is pointless. As long as you don’t annoy her with multiple unwanted calls and messages you did things right. If she rejects you don’t start thinking if only I had waited that extra day before calling, because most likely it will be the opposite. If only you had called sooner and set something up. Yes. Follow this.
EasyHeart Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I would have called on Monday. WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU WAITING FOR????
SnowandStars Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 So did you call her? I would have assumed by now that the guy isn't interested.
Wink Tobasco Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 Almost scary to say, but I agree with Wayne. I would usually wait until the next day. Playing games is just not my thing and really a waste of time IMO. Less than a half hour before, Blackmagik writes Dating is a game of numbers anyway. I would consider close to sales. You will get turned down [/quote That's the thing about posting without much thought, you have to be honest or at least consistent. Too many others here, even the casual observor will soon identify those who will post ANYTHING to "hear themselves talk"
Author Helloween Posted April 24, 2011 Author Posted April 24, 2011 So did you call her? I would have assumed by now that the guy isn't interested. i txted her the next day and we met up and gave her a ride to her sisters house and met her sister and waht not but then two days later i txt her if she wanted to smoke but she didnt reply.
Dust Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 i txted her the next day and we met up and gave her a ride to her sisters house and met her sister and waht not but then two days later i txt her if she wanted to smoke but she didnt reply. You should called instead of txting. Your date if you can call it that sounds like she just used you for a ride (no pun intended since you literally just gave her a ride in your car). Randomly txting some one to smoke has a high likely hood of getting ignored even if they are into that type of thing. You should have asked her out in person when she was using you for that ride. If you still feel like trying give her a call. Hopefully she picks up but if she doesn’t just hang up and try again in a hour or so. Leave a msg if she doesn’t pick up the second time. Make the msg short and sweet like “Hey it’s Helloween lets do something fun tonight” (dinner, bowling, laser show… what ever)
dispatch3d Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 haha I'd just call now. Who cares. See if she picks up, see if she is interesting. Meh you're just at like stage 1 of 1000 why worry about the details.
rocketboy9 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 If you got the number Sunday which is yesterday do it today. Dont believe that crap about making women wait. They hate this because they all know men do this so as to not appear desperate. Do it and if she doesnt pick up, leave a message - "this is so and so, we met at ABC and I would like to meet you for dinner/snacks/coffeee/whatever on XYZ day" Click, over. No ambiguity, no confusion about what the txt meant. Done. If she does not respond, call her one more time in about a week. After that forget her.
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