sweet92111 Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I met a guy i had been talking to online for 3 weeks and we hit it off over drinks. A few days after we met we hooked up, not sex but we got our naked on, more than I would have if I'd had my head on straight. So the day after he texted me his usual good morning text and i responded with the same. I would usually have some kind of quipy random response but I don't know I was suddenly feeling shy and insecure. So in the last couple of days since, instead of what had become random daily banter, he says good morning or nite and thats pretty much it. A guy whos only checking in with a text after hooking up is pretty much just looking for a repeat hookup and has no interest in getting to know the girl for anything more right? Should i call him out on the difference in communication? Just ignore his text or am i wrong for assuming the worst? I was standoffish right after as well but have made an attempt to go back to the daily banter. If he's not interested in more than hooking up I'd rather not talk to him but if he's open to more I would like to get to know him outside his bed. Not real sure how to handle this one. Any advice?
blackmagik Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Ask him straight up if he is just in it for casual sex or wants a relationship. You should be able to tell by his actions what he wants. I would probably hold off some physical contact on the next date or two to see if his intentions are real too..
utterer of lies Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 A guy whos only checking in with a text after hooking up is pretty much just looking for a repeat hookup and has no interest in getting to know the girl for anything more right? No. It depends. Maybe he's just interested in sex, maybe he's interested in more.
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