Von Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 So this guy I know, who I really don't care for, was sitting next to me having drinks at a bar, and he was talking about how he is on POF, and how in the last three months he has had sex with 30-40 women from there!!!!!!! On top of that, he was showing me pictures on his phone of some of the women, including nudes they sent him, and a few were ones that I HAD TALKED TO! I was pretty irritated by that. We're talking seemingly nice girls. So I went and looked at his profile, and he makes it seem like he just wants something serious and not looking for just sex, yet here he is getting all these girls from our city and surrounding area. So now I'm weary of who I talk to on there, because I don't want some dirty girl he's hooked up with. I showed him some pics of a one or two girls I was really interested in that I saved their pics on my phone, and he didn't recognize them thankfully. Just goes to show, like I thought, it's gunna be hard to find a girl that I want and hasn't been around the online dating block. Sheesh! There's nothing wrong with sex, but make it clear that's all you want. I go for sex as early as I can too, but I don't keep going after more from as many girls as possible, if I meet a girl and we end up doing it, I focus on just her and see where it goes. He's faking looking for a relationship and just having one night stands. wow.
Lil1 Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Ugh! Thats soooo gross! that guy must be a walking STD:sick: He's exactly the reason why I was soooo scared of doing the online dating thing. Fortunately I met someone who seems pretty honest and really looking for a relationship like myself. Granted we have only known each other for about 2 weeks now but we seem to be on the same page about many things. I feel bad for all those girls that douche bag lied to and banged! He probably just dropped them like hot garbage afterwards too. What an ass. I hope he gets it threefold! Jerk! I hope I never experience anything like that, and OP, thank God there are real genuine people like you on the online dating world! You give me hope:)
Sabali Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Playboys, tramps, sluts, child porngraphers, rapists, the lonely, the misfit, geeks, nerds, boys scouts, beauty queens, hunks, soldiers, and the kind-hearted use the internet just like everyone else. I am not sure what makes this guy any different than the guy who sat at the bar or stood at the nightclub picking up women as they came through the door before the internet was invented. I would just let the man make his soup.
Author Von Posted March 30, 2011 Author Posted March 30, 2011 Soooo you are saying you don't want to date women who like sex? Nope. I'm saying I don't want to date an "easy" girl. This guy is a real piece of work. I'm suprised that many girls fell for his game.
daphne Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 He's probably a very good liar. And there are plenty of gullible women looking for love, as there are plenty of women who are ok with a quick hookup. I think this is why I am overly cautious with online guys. I've heard a number of stories like. But then again, I have to dodge players in real life too so it's pretty much teh same.
Author Von Posted March 30, 2011 Author Posted March 30, 2011 Playboys, tramps, sluts, child porngraphers, rapists, the lonely, the misfit, geeks, nerds, boys scouts, beauty queens, hunks, soldiers, and the kind-hearted use the internet just like everyone else. I am not sure what makes this guy any different than the guy who sat at the bar or stood at the nightclub picking up women as they came through the door before the internet was invented. I would just let the man make his soup. Theres nothing I'm going to do about him, I'm just going to be more diligent about weeding out his leftovers. Or getting one before he does. My main point was that girls who take online dating seriously need to watch out for players like him.
Thedude22 Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Honestly, most of those girls do just want to hook up, they just don't want the stigma of putting "looking for casual sex" on their profile. They just tell themselves that this guy wants to date them so they can blame him for "taking advantage" of them later on. Men and women can be whores just the same, but women are ashamed of it while men are proud.
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