shiftedblue Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I was with my ex for 3.5 years...we broke up in July. I did no contact for two months but then I emailed him and we started hooking up etc. It was clear we still loved each other but we couldn't make it work, so the last time I had seen him was in early December.. I was feeling pretty broken hearted, as he was adamant that we could not work. Anyway I've been dating since then, casually.. and then I just felt like emailing my ex yesterday. I figured I had nothing to lose. He's on my mind all the time. He got back to me within an hour, said he wanted to talk to me, so he called me and we met up. We just chatted and laughed a lot.. walked around the grocery store and then the mall like old times. He kept making flirtatious comments too.. Dropped him off but first made out in my car for about thirty minutes. And talked and held hands. I no longer feel like my heart is in a vice, but I still have very deep feelings for this guy. I still love him but it doesn't feel so desperate anymore. It seems pretty obvious by what he said and how he acted that he wants me back pretty badly, though we both said it would have to start out slow... I'm just confused. He came on so strong, and yet I'm the one who initiated contact. I wonder if he would have called me without me emailing him first.
Fufu Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Did he say anything to you, "i want you back" or "let's work things out together"? I will say, ask him the direct and ultimatum question, "Are we going to get back together or not?" because you wouldn't want to be put in a situation where you don't even know what is your real status with this man.
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