geegirl Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 "Like yours ex, mine didn't let me go nc (we are coworkers so go figure) and literally begged me to stay in her life, as a friend, a colleague, a mentor, whatever but not as a lover... So, since there was really no other option i stayed around and after some time we got back together..." I believe the difference is that situation, the ex was "begging" him to stay in her life. I don't believe your ex is begging you. She rather quickly dismissed you when you told her you were going NC. She gave you reasons why it would not work. Told you no 2nd chances. Aside from the breadcrumb once every three days, I really don't see where it says that she begged for you to be in her life. She didn't even fight to keep you in her life. Give it your best shot and get her back Shawn. I believe the only way you will get your answer and live with it, is by giving it that one more shot. If she bites and you both walk happily into the sunset, great. If not, maybe then you will want the gift of NC.
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