believeme Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 (edited) one of the things i have found is that in order to really be able to handle a break up, you have to learn to let go. Without that part, its useless. What do you think? For me, its hard to let go. Its hard to stop all of what feels like voices in my head that are telling me how terrible I am for making certain decisions in my past. How do you let that go? I am tired of being in a relationships with people who want to help me by making me like they want me to be. I am just tired of it. How are you all? Edited March 29, 2011 by believeme
Fufu Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 You have to let go, no point holding on to someone who doesn't want to be with you. We've been through ups and downs struggling to let go, however, they already let us go. If not, we wouldn't be in this sub-forum at all. Have a look at my thread, http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t271118/
Trovador Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 In order to let go of someone, you must "let come" someone else first... That person is yourself, with your dreams, your hopes, your qualities and defects... Sometimes we need to be a little selfish...
ihatedrama Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I think the most difficult part is to convince yourself for real that it is completely over and that person will no longer be in part of your life. I guess I am still in denial. It is so hard for me to swallow the idea that he is gone for good. Yet, I know that is something I have to accept
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