After two years, going through the final stages of grief........ hopefully

[Notsogood]

Well its been nearly 2 years since my 6 year relationship ended... with 1 and half year total NC, other than a birthday text on my last birthday. It's been a long road with many up and downs (more downs). My birthday was yesterday and I have not heard anything from my ex. Even her brother sent me a birthday message but nothing from her. Its weird to say as it really hurts, but I hope this will finally do what 1 and a half years of NC couldn't and destroy any ounce of hope of reconciliation left in me so I can finally move on out of this hole. This is the final stretch.... wish me luck!

[Mcnulty]

Yep, i hear you, am in the same timescale really. Sent me HP on my last one but not this one...pleased she didn't in a way, I know I've moved on now.

 

Seeing her with another guy, hurt but helped also.

 

These are the milestones which tell us all is gone and time to move forward...good luck!

[Fufu]

Mcnulty: You are doing great and you have been doing great.

 

Don't let because of one birthday message that your not receiving from her destroys what you have built for yourself throughout this 1 and a half year.