Cheater or not

[soldierwife]

i got married march 17 , 2011 . yeah not even 2 weeks ago , we went and visited his family for the weekend . we came back i went to my house to finish some packing and he came back to base to go back to work well that was the 20th .

 

i got down here on the 23rd we had a great time together well i woke up the next morning and noticed he had dropped a phone i had though he had disconnected due to the fact i added him to my account . obvisouly he didnt i hate to say it but i started being nosey and came accross multiple text from the same name "carmen" i read the text and they had obvisouoly hung out on the 21st

 

i call her and she ask who i am i say wife and she said well i was told by him that he was divorced , she works on base as well come to find out

 

i ask him about it and he denys knowing anything and says it must of been his buddy because on the 21st he wennt to the medical center and had to get IV's run and his buddy met her there , i know its a lie because he told me before all this happend that while he was at the hospital he had a nurse ask for his number and he told her no and that he was married

 

well now its got to bothering me and i cant deal no more and he is still denying it wat do i do

[dreamingoftigers]

Ask him for a polygraph, don't back down.

 

Or just kick his ass to the curb because you already know he is full of ****.

 

Sorry to you have to go through this as a newlywed. You can find a man that will treat you better by tripping over him at a bowling alley. You have nothing to lose here.

[soldierwife]

thanks...

 

and him no a polygraph thats a joke he thinks im supposed to believe him no matter what ... and i dont i b een thorugh this to many times already and i really cant deal with the emotional stress again .