Thedude22 Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 So yeah I just graduated college and I'm a bit perplexed on where I should go to meet quality females anymore. I've never dated anyone that I didn't either meet at school or on the net. The thing I liked about college was there was plenty of intelligent, creative minded, politically interested types I tend do dig. Now I don't know where to meet those girls, seems like most of the girls I meet don't know what a book is these days. I live just outside Cincinnati it is by no means an intellectual stomping ground. I've found the internet to be genuinely terrible with a few notable exceptions. Where are good places to meet girls after college? I'm not enrolling in a friggin yoga class either haha.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I'm not enrolling in a friggin yoga class either haha. I'll have you know some of the hottest women, and sexiest strippers I have met do yoga
MistaDynamic Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 The best place to meet women is as you go about you daily life you should have ample opportunities to meet women who enjoy things you do. The 'Nati is a big city so there has to be some good clubs around. Bookstores,malls grocery stores are good places as well.
MistaDynamic Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I'll have you know some of the hottest women, and sexiest strippers I have met do yoga yeah but most strippers are bisexual and not quality women. They're attention whores. With attention whores you can rent the pu**y but you can never own it. They crave attention and no one man can ever fulfill their need for attention. Strippers are only good for as an occasional f**k buddy, nothing more.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 yeah but most strippers are bisexual and not quality women. They're attention whores. With attention whores you can rent the pu**y but you can never own it. They crave attention and no one man can ever fulfill their need for attention. Strippers are only good for as an occasional f**k buddy, nothing more. So you are saying you can't turn a hoe into a house wife? Way to crush my dreams
Author Thedude22 Posted March 29, 2011 Author Posted March 29, 2011 I don't live in Cincy, about 20 minutes away in KY and my friends won't go over there, ever. My social group (god love em) are very rural folks, unlike me and while we are good friends it really conflicts with the types of social scenes I get into. I dig punk/hispter chicks and they won't be caught dead in any of these cheap sports bars and bro-clubs I go to with them. I think I just have to start learning to go places by myself because I just can't date the kind of girls I meet in these hick/bro bars.
welikeincrowds Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I don't live in Cincy, about 20 minutes away in KY and my friends won't go over there, ever. My social group (god love em) are very rural folks, unlike me and while we are good friends it really conflicts with the types of social scenes I get into. I dig punk/hispter chicks and they won't be caught dead in any of these cheap sports bars and bro-clubs I go to with them. I think I just have to start learning to go places by myself because I just can't date the kind of girls I meet in these hick/bro bars. You can try going to shows. I don't know what the Cincinnati music scene is like though.
Duckduckgoose Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I don't live in Cincy, about 20 minutes away in KY and my friends won't go over there, ever. My social group (god love em) are very rural folks, unlike me and while we are good friends it really conflicts with the types of social scenes I get into. I dig punk/hispter chicks and they won't be caught dead in any of these cheap sports bars and bro-clubs I go to with them. I think I just have to start learning to go places by myself because I just can't date the kind of girls I meet in these hick/bro bars. I feel your pain. I lived in Kentucky for a while... too long. Not the same area you are describing but still. Biggest hole I ever dug myself out of.
Pyro Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Take a drive up to Columbus. Ohio State should have some fresh faces and minds for you.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 You can try going to shows. I don't know what the Cincinnati music scene is like though. Believe me, it sucks. Most big name artists won't come to Cincinnati, they skip over us. I have done yoga, but not for the benefit of meeting women. It doesn't work, anyways; if you have trouble meeting women outside of class, you'll have trouble meeting them IN class as well. You carry your trouble with you wherever you go.
Author Thedude22 Posted March 29, 2011 Author Posted March 29, 2011 Northern Kentucky is a bizarre mix of gun toting conservatism and white collar brooks brother conservatism, with a few spots of college age over-the-top liberalism around UC up in Cincinnati. We don't have accents or anything but we are right on the edge of being the south, and that makes many of the people around here very country. I have no problem with that within my friends but for some reason I have a serious problem with that for potential partners. They want a camo wearing construction worker, and I want an intellectual poet, just doesn't work.
fishtaco Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 You can try expanding one of your interests/hobbies and make it more social. One thing to try are meetup.com groups. If you're in a metropolitan area, there should be local meetup groups for just about anything. If you want to get hardcore about it, they even have meetup groups for singles, where you just go hit up bars and get drunk together. You can even start one yourself, although free, I think that takes a lot of work and promotion and already made social connections to pull it off. But if you don't want to do meetup groups, there are always the old fashioned way. When I was playing recreational league hockey, I met a lot of people through that. Unsurprisingly mostly men, but you make friends and their friends could be women. I've also met a number of female recreational hockey players. I've also practiced martial arts. I've met people through that too. By the time I discovered meetup, I already have multiple social groups going, so I didn't need it. I signed up and made some more friends anyway. But I thought it's a good tool. When I was aggressively expanding my social circle, it would have been pretty handy. But if I ever move to say a new state or something where I know no one, I'd probably try meetup first to see what sort of social connections I can make. Oh, my theory of meeting women is to have as large of a social network as you can get. Make friends with everyone. Something will come out of it. You can always hit up bars and clubs too. But as you know, that's a different ballgame.
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