4givrnt4gtr Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 So ive been with my bf for over a year now. I love him very much but i tend to be very anxious about random things. Im not sure if this is one of these instances. So he is a very loving man, super smart, gorgeous etc. unfortunately he is also very insecure and unassertive. We've discussed moving in together at the end of this year. He currently works at a place that appreciates him but doesn't have the resources to pay him on time. Though he needs the money he seems to be afraid to look for something more secured. Also, he was hoping to get extra money from a program (school) he applied to. Unfortunately it seems he wont be getting it after all. Now he seems pretty lost and mentioned going into the military (instead of trying again or looking for a better job in the field he has a higher degree on). Basically, it just seems like he tends to give up as or just get stuck when he finds a roadblock instead of fighting thru it or looking for a way around it and continue trying to reach his goals. This is the second time he changes careers because it just got too rough. This makes me nervous, specially thinking about living and eventually marrying him. We're not kids anymore, we're both almost 30 and this just makes me nervous but Im not sure if im blowing all of it out of proportion and should let him "find himself" or what.... Thoughts?
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