schmatom Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Hi fellow LShackers. I have a dilemma. I recently met a man at a dinner party hosted by one of my closest friends. I was impressed by him. He was nice, intelligent, and cute. My friend who hosted commented on how she could see the chemistry between us from across the room and guessed that he and I liked each other. She offered to plan another party and invite him. I don't know what to do from here. I know he's single, as am I. We spent a little time talking to each other, and it felt comfortable. How can I find out if he's interested in going out for coffee or dinner? I usually don't do the asking. I don't know if he'll ask. Help.
SweetDaphne Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Plan on going to the dinner/party your friend is planning. Once there talk to him some more, see what your common interests are. If it's food, mention casually if he wants to go to a certain Italian restaurant sometime. Maybe it's Wine. Mention a winery. Sporting event. Etc. Find something you two have in common and then try to work getting together around that. It's a good way to get to know each other and see if he's interested in seeing you outside of the party.
Sabali Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Considering that the next time your friend throw the party could be a long time from now and that could be too late... Is your friend the very social type? Have your friend invite him over to something much sooner. If this is a good friend, she should be willing to cook up a little something just for you and invite him to join. When he comes, make it happen then. Your friend doesn't have to mention anything about you being interested. All she needs to tell him is that you will be there. Yes, he may get the idea but that is no big deal. The mystery will still be there.
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