New Again Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Today I met someone that I was very physically attracted to - which never happens to me! At first I didn't really notice him - thought he was nice looking, but nothing special. Then, as we were talking, I noticed his hands, which were on the large side, and just slightly rough looking...and up my eyes traveled - just the right about of muscle, freckles, broad shoulders - and BOOM :love: I really have a thing for hands and forearms, I think. And freckles are damn sexy too I haven't been instantly attracted to anyone like that since freshman year in college (first love). But, as it turns out, he's married. Even if he wasn't, I'm ethically prohibited from dating him at this point in time. Isn't that just the way it goes?
laRubiaBonita Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 nothing wrong with window shopping though.... or smelling and salivating over the aroma at the bakery!!! :cool: and yes- as they say, men are like parking spaces; the good ones are either taken or handicapped! :lmao: maybe he has a single twin brother or cousin????
waynebrady Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 It's not appropriate for a woman to refer to a man as "sexy", no matter if he's married or not.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Let it go, he's married. I don't understand with, all the single men that are out there, you'd want to go after someone who's already got someone. Find someone of your own. It's not appropriate for a woman to refer to a man as "sexy", no matter if he's married or not. It's not appropriate for a waynebrady to make blanket statements about women.
tigressA Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Yeah, it does suck when you spot someone who you're really attracted to and it turns out they're taken, or otherwise unavailable. When it happens to me I just enjoy the view.
denise_xo Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I don't understand with, all the single men that are out there, you'd want to go after someone who's already got someone. Find someone of your own. Re-read the OP. She clearly stated she isn't going after him.
laRubiaBonita Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 Re-read the OP. She clearly stated she isn't going after him. Amen to that- all she said was he is sexy
dreamingoftigers Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 It's not appropriate for a woman to refer to a man as "sexy", no matter if he's married or not. Too bad, I was going to say that you and your posts were really sexy. Another of life's missed opportunities eh?
Kamille Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I know she's not going after him but: NO! No no no no no! Bad New Again. Sexy married guys are the ultimate temptations. Plus, they can sniff it when sexy single girls are attracted to them. Yes. I once was caught in an emotional affair with a sexy MM. And the reason I got caught in it was precisely because I thought I certainly wouldn't get caught. And ps: there was also ethical issues with getting involved with this man, of a professional order. That didn't stop us from spending months emotionally torturing each other.
Author New Again Posted March 30, 2011 Author Posted March 30, 2011 maybe he has a single twin brother or cousin???? I wish! I was so attracted to this guy, that as soon as I realized he was married I was afraid to make eye contact, in case it was obvious. I was probably so awkward, but I had to talk to him for work. His wife is one lucky woman!
Author New Again Posted April 1, 2011 Author Posted April 1, 2011 Young lady, you stay away from our men! But don't women just want what they can't have?
Ruby Slippers Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 Plus, they can sniff it when sexy single girls are attracted to them. I agree. I'm working with a lot of sexy married men in running my biz, and while a FEW of them keep everything platonic, there is some strong energy coming at me from some of the married guys. I estimate that 15% of the married guys behave in a way that seems loyal to their wives.
Author New Again Posted April 1, 2011 Author Posted April 1, 2011 (edited) I agree. I'm working with a lot of sexy married men in running my biz, and while a FEW of them keep everything platonic, there is some strong energy coming at me from some of the married guys. I estimate that 15% of the married guys behave in a way that seems loyal to their wives. I often think that a small percentage of men in relationships act in a way that seems loyal to their SO. I wonder why that is? The other day I was told that I'm uptight, because a guy who is in a relationship grabbed me by my butt and picked me up so that my legs were wrapped around his waist, and I didn't like it. The reason given for why I shouldn't haven't minded: the guy's gf was right there, so obviously it's fine because he's not hitting on me. Edited April 1, 2011 by New Again
denise_xo Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 The other day I was told that I'm uptight, because a guy who is in a relationship grabbed me by my butt and picked me up so that my legs were wrapped around his waist, and I didn't like it. You're not uptight. I would have slapped him.
PerpetualMotion Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I often think that a small percentage of men in relationships act in a way that seems loyal to their SO. I wonder why that is? The other day I was told that I'm uptight, because a guy who is in a relationship grabbed me by my butt and picked me up so that my legs were wrapped around his waist, and I didn't like it. The reason given for why I shouldn't haven't minded: the guy's gf was right there, so obviously it's fine because he's not hitting on me. I wonder what his gf does (if anything) in front of him...
mr.dream merchant Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I often think that a small percentage of men in relationships act in a way that seems loyal to their SO. I wonder why that is? The other day I was told that I'm uptight, because a guy who is in a relationship grabbed me by my butt and picked me up so that my legs were wrapped around his waist, and I didn't like it. The reason given for why I shouldn't haven't minded: the guy's gf was right there, so obviously it's fine because he's not hitting on me. Lol? If he got that far, you let on just a tiny bit. Stop fronting.
threebyfate Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 But don't women just want what they can't have?Not this woman. Can't have it, don't want it.
Author New Again Posted April 1, 2011 Author Posted April 1, 2011 I wonder what his gf does (if anything) in front of him... I know her pretty well. She doesn't do anything like that. Lol? If he got that far, you let on just a tiny bit. Stop fronting. Nope. Just went up to him for a hug to say hello.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I know her pretty well. She doesn't do anything like that. Nope. Just went up to him for a hug to say hello. Yeah, I'm sure. One time a woman I went to hug pulled my junk out and started rubbing one out for me before I could even react.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 1, 2011 Posted April 1, 2011 I often think that a small percentage of men in relationships act in a way that seems loyal to their SO. I wonder why that is? Probably because they want to have sex with single hotties like us, and would in a heartbeat if they knew the wife wouldn't find out.
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