moimeme Posted April 5, 2004 Posted April 5, 2004 Cheeky woman. Damn straight, pal And I don't take guff. If you had a bad childhood, then ditch the excuses and see a shrink. People can't usually get over that stuff without help. Developing maladaptive coping mechanisms (like disorders) isn't the way to go. Nor is developing an unhealthy cynicism. None of those things will aid you in having a successful life. It's your choice - live in denial or face up to the fact that maybe you're in a bit of trouble and need some help.
Arabess Posted April 5, 2004 Posted April 5, 2004 Just a hint Renny: IF you are going to persue the popular blonde in your 'triangle' scenario.....you better dump the 'breeding material' verbage. They hear a lot of good pick up lines....and that isn't going to be a keeper.
gypsygem Posted April 17, 2004 Posted April 17, 2004 Now for the reality: he doesn't have a girlfriend; he doesn't get any nookie; all he does is e-mail poetry to chicks he dreams of. I soooooooo agree with you!!! I bet he made all this s#^t up to get reactions and attention from the group!!! He is probably "ugly", and boring himself, and needs a little drama in his sorry, pathetic life. Instead of being an observer of life, he should try LIVING it!!! You only get back from others what you dish out yourself!!! GET A LIFE, DUDE!!!!!
Jon S. Posted April 24, 2004 Posted April 24, 2004 You're probably going to lose your friend. You should've kept her in the loop. Take your lumps like a man. You obviously don't care about her *that* much or you wouldn't say such nasty things about the way she looks. It's human to not be attracted to people who aren't physically beautiful. In a perfect world, we'd all be judged by our personalities and not our looks, but this is not a perfect world. You admit you're evil? Than you get NO sympathy because you're trying to exclude yourself from any responsibility for your actions. "I'm not a jerk, I'm just evil." "I don't hide my feelings, I'm actually quite confident - and evil!" Yadda Yadda Yadda
Kap Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Man you are such a joker u have kept me + my bro laughing all afternoon. Keep on rocking, dude!
lilli Posted April 26, 2004 Posted April 26, 2004 personally i think you really like this brunette girl and for some reason it scares you because she 's not pretty like all the cute blonde girls who want to be "stars":...yeah right, anyway, you want her or you wouldn't be writing all these threads if you didn't have an inner thought process about this brunnette girl, right? maybe the brunnette girl wasn't flirting w/ u because you weren't showing her you were interested...ya think? I know from experience that when you subconsciously like someone alot; you talk and dwell about him or her alot and it starts to bother you. i mean think about it, if you want to pursure something with her, then you be the one to ask her...why does it have to be her? Your the the one that seems to be upset that she's not flirting with you and if you didn't want her to be "sexually": interested in you then what's the deal, just continue to be friends..but, i think i know why you want her to flirt ! Lastly, if you want her then ask her how she feels and then ask her out for a date or something or else forget about it or stop talking to her period!
BlockHead Posted May 4, 2004 Posted May 4, 2004 lilli personally i think you really like this brunette girl and for some reason it scares you because she 's not pretty like all the cute blonde girls who want to be "stars":...yeah right, anyway, you want her or you wouldn't be writing all these threads if you didn't have an inner thought process about this brunnette girl, right?Not necessarily. He might actually feel guilty about it, and is seeking validation for his bad behavior.
Horse Posted July 22, 2005 Posted July 22, 2005 Dude. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with flirting with two girls at once. That's how you find out who you really like and who likes you. But... Flirting with a girl that you don't like and obviously don't respect is messed up. Your crush on the blond girls is unimportant, except that it exposed your jerkness to the other girl. I don't think you are evil or a total bastard. You're young. Young dudes do a lot of jerky things (I know I did). That's why most women like older guys. If you want to do the right thing, just appologize for being a jerk and let her be. Or you could do the jerky thing, act dumb and try to pretend like it never happened. Don't try to be friends with her, because it will never work if she has a crush on you and you have so little respect for her or any intention of dating her. Whatever you do, don't do this: Originally posted by Renny_H “You have too many things that turn me off sexually, but I still think you’re a nice friend.”[/color] That would upgrade you from Naive Jerk to total Arsehole in a hurry. ...Well I didn't read the whole thread before I started posting. I just read the last page. It looks like you went with plan B. Congratulations!
Outcast Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 This is an old old post. No real point in telling someone off who has not posted since April of 04 is there?
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