poorguy Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 We were together for 3 years and broke up 10 monts ago. I broke up with her because of the types of people she was hanging out with and things they were doing, not because I wanted to. She moved on right away. I guess her and him moved in together shortly after. After all of that I just stopped talking to her altogether. Months later she apoligized for having had been shady and hurting me. That was nice but I then stopped talking to her again. So the other morning she texted me this "I was looking at and old pic of you and me at camp fishing together and it reminded me how much i missed those days. They were so simple and filled with love. I hope your doing well XOXO" So what does that mean?
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 If you don't know what it means, why would we as random strangers know what it means? Depending on her personality, it might mean that she's going through a rocky time with the new guy and it made her miss you.
Lucky_One Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 She's fishing. Fishing expeditions rarely end up well for the fish.
elaina Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 She's fishing. Fishing expeditions rarely end up well for the fish. So profoundly true. I would say to her, "Well I wish you the best." and then just leave her alone.
GivenUp0083 Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 She's fishing. Fishing expeditions rarely end up well for the fish. Exactly. But I would not say ANYTHING back. It'll eat at her a lot and by breaking no contact you risk falling down a slippery slope. As for why? It's not important, but there can't be any GOOD reason why she's doing this. Some girls just need to know they have a guy in their back pocket. Maybe things aren't going too well for her and she is looking for a guy to string along so she can feel better knowing someone wants her or interested in her. She's trying to egg you on to communicate with her so she can try and get that out of you for her self gratification. Don't give it to her.
Lilmisus Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 It seems like she was just remembering what you guys had and missed it and you. My friend would do that to her ex a few times just because she missed him until he got engaged, then married. She would just send him random texts every so often even though she was in a committed relationship, because she wasn't completely ready to let her boyfriend of four years go, no matter how hard she tried to make us believe she had moved on. He stopped replying eventually, and if he did reply it was always cruel because he couldn't do it any more, and was married. He blocked her on Facebook, and doesn't respond to her texts, and I think you should do the same. If you respond, keep it polite and brief, and closed ended, like "I'm great! Thanks for asking." Anything more than that is unnecessary though, and would only cause more drama and reopen that door to your past, and make her think that she can text you whenever she feels like it from now on.
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