turokturok5 Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Best friend finally admitted he liked my ex the other day. I've been so pissed off about it all day going through everything that has happened in my head. Nearly fighting him, for when i was still going out with her he got drunk and started telling me she was a dog-slut who was controlling me and i should dump her, always saying "shes not even that hot, shes a dog anyway" getting drunk and calling her a slut to her face. I could tell he liked her, but since he has admitted it, i just can't believe he can actually have the nerve to like her after saying all these things behind her back, whats worse is that she may like him back and they may date. He is a genuinely nice guy around her which is why she possibly likes him, but all the stuff he has said behind her back and when he told me he liked her he said "she isn't that hot, i just think she is cool." It made me so angry that she can like a guy because he thinks she is "cool" when i really cared about her and was willing to go out of my way to do things for her. He is also always talking about trying to get with other chicks right in her face and that is all he really wants, is sex and she isn't that type of person. As you may have noticed i still have some feelings for her, just annoys me because she has no idea how much i cared about her. Saw some photos up on facebook from a party the other night, i can't really remember much apart from the fact that i had a lot of fun and the photos reinforced that. There was a couple of my ex, where she was in the background and she just looked miserable. It made me feel better looking back at pictures of other parties when i was dating her, i looked a lot happier in the one post-break-up. Exept then for some reason one of our friends uploaded some old photos from another party, where i was dating my ex still and i was there with her, in a few of them i was holding her and we looked really happy. Makes me wonder what changed inside her head...I remember back when i was trying to get her back, i gave her a photo of us together from that party, we both looked really happy i said to her "look, this was a recent photo, look how happy we look, you didn't make me upset as you thought you did" (she told me when she was breaking up with me that it was because of her that i was angry/upset usually) she replied coldy "you were drunk" and remembering that hurt me so much, that she thought i could only be happy with her when i was drunk.
lapse Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 I don't blame you at all for being pissed. My head would tell me the 'friend' liked her all along and wanted you to dump her because he wanted her. How does the saying go... "With friends like that, who needs enemies" Sorry you're going through this.
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