jessydog Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 HELP NEEDED even through my ex girlfriend left me 2 weeks ago it still hurts ive accepted that shes not coming back but i am worried about her. i would never accept her back now because she has caused me so much heart ache in the last week or two. she was raped when she was 13 and has never got over this, even through shes now 21 recently the memories have come flooding back to her and she couldn't cope so i encouraged her to look for councilling on the net. she went to a forum and posted her story, after a few replys she got friendly with a couple of girls who had been through the same experance as her they swapped emails so they could stay in touch but i suggested that they all go to a chat room for a more private chat . but after a while she got distant from me and my son so it caused a lot of arguments because she was in chats room 12 hours a day with me not knowing that she was talking to boys. 1 boy who works in Cyprus but lives in the uk encouraged her to leave me so she up and left. shes now living with her brother on her mobile phone she has explicit photos of this boy and has also sent some photos of herself naked. she has only know this boy for a couple of weeks and shes doing this, i am so worried about her and my son but she wont listen to me when i tell her to be careful on the net because she gives her phone number out to anyone that she talks to in chat rooms i cant approach her family and im at my wits end. i feel shes taking her feelings about the rape out on me because she has done a similar thing once before when she has felt like this about her problems but stupidly i took her back. why is she doing this to me please please help Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 i think you should stay away from this lady... she's got issues and it's up to her to deal with them, rlly. my 2c, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 Sounds like you feel responsible for her and her behavior. If she left you, and is exchanging explicit pictures with another man, her actions are her own. She needs some serious counseling to deal with the issues... but only she can deal with the problem. I am sorry for the pain you are going through, but it best if you let her deal with things in her own way without letting her drag you down also. She just might be one of those who has to hit bottom before they can work it out. Best of luck to you and your son~ Link to post Share on other sites
Author jessydog Posted April 10, 2004 Author Share Posted April 10, 2004 just to update you that ive now taken my son off her and i am ready for a long court battle for his sake. i have no intention of ever getting back with her and the fact thats she planning to meet 1 of the boys shows that shes a danger to my son thenks for taking the time to reply Link to post Share on other sites
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