Sake Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Short summary - we were together for 3 years (07 - 10), shes 18 I'm 19 - High school lovers - Shes a well off uptown girl, I'm a downtown project kid - after 3 years she broke it off, things seemed fine but the last month was very off - started hanging out with her friends more than caring about me - blamed the break up all on me (I admit I had certain issues but I wouldn't exactly say it was all because of me) - like playing too much video games (the same games she had bought for me) - anyways, a month later she started dating her current boyfriend (hes 21, rich and has his own car and pays for everything) - who knows if all that is a coincidence but I held her deep inside my heart and for some reason I know I'll never get over this girl and that I'm always going to miss her. - we broke up 9 months ago, shes still dating him - I bumped into her about a month ago and only managed to say hi and bye - before that I had given her a new years card + a letter which finished the final chapter of this story I used to tell before she'd go to sleep - that's the summary and I'm just wondering, if time really heals wounds? I don't feel the same way about her anymore but it is something and I guess 9 months is a very long time and most people would have moved on by now. Do I have any hope of moving on, or am I just doomed to dream about her for the rest of my life? - Is there a chance she might come back? - Appreciated
Surf Rider Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Short summary - we were together for 3 years (07 - 10), shes 18 I'm 19 - High school lovers - Shes a well off uptown girl, I'm a downtown project kid - after 3 years she broke it off, things seemed fine but the last month was very off - started hanging out with her friends more than caring about me - blamed the break up all on me (I admit I had certain issues but I wouldn't exactly say it was all because of me) - like playing too much video games (the same games she had bought for me) - anyways, a month later she started dating her current boyfriend (hes 21, rich and has his own car and pays for everything) - who knows if all that is a coincidence but I held her deep inside my heart and for some reason I know I'll never get over this girl and that I'm always going to miss her. - we broke up 9 months ago, shes still dating him - I bumped into her about a month ago and only managed to say hi and bye - before that I had given her a new years card + a letter which finished the final chapter of this story I used to tell before she'd go to sleep - that's the summary and I'm just wondering, if time really heals wounds? I don't feel the same way about her anymore but it is something and I guess 9 months is a very long time and most people would have moved on by now. Do I have any hope of moving on, or am I just doomed to dream about her for the rest of my life? - Is there a chance she might come back? - Appreciated Yes, time does heal wounds. My situation with my ex is different than yours. Mine just didnt want to be with me anymore. And yes, it absolutely broke my heart. We were together for a little over a year. It has been over a year now and I'm doing much better than I was when it first happened. Don't get me wrong though when I say this but my heart is still mending back together. It takes time. It is going to hurt but you will get through it. As far as her coming back, I cannot answer that for you. I hope this can be of some help. Good luck.
nana841121 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Of course you will be healed. You are only 19, there is a long life ahead of you. Be more dynamic and activate. Don't indulge yourself into video game too much. You know, you can take the advice and "complaint" from your ex to learn more about yourself. we all know ourselves better through relationships. Cherish your love with her, and move on. No resent, no negative feeling, no hope. at least, you don't nurture the hope inside.
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