roman_pavluchenko Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 My girlfriend dumped me 2 months ago, i really liked her as a person but i didn't really like our relationship, mainly because - i wanted to be with her more than she wanted to be with me. I wanted to catch up with her more than once or twice a week and she always made lame excuses to not do things together but if we were doing something in a group setting that would be different. So we pretty much never had time alone which confused me because we were a "couple." On the off occasions that i did go to her house, i would suggest we watch a movie together or something, she would suggest we go play xbox with her brother, defeated the purpose of us having some time to ourselves and when she would agree to the movie she would usually asked her sister if she wanted to watch it too. I got really insecure and started to get clingy/needy, eventually confronted her about wanting to spend more time with her and her not wanting to spend enough time with me and she dumped me. I know towards the end of the relationship i got clingy/needy/insecure and a bit self-centered and such and i feel pretty bad about it and realise it was part of the reason we broke up. But based on what i said, she kind of made me feel that way and i needed to let her know that i wanted to spend more time with her. Should i just forget about her and move on, i've just kind of been leaning towards contacting her and telling her i know what i did wrong and that i would like to get back together if she is willing to work with me, but she didn't really seem that into me in the first place.
El_Enamorado Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Wuz Up Roman. My EX would tell others that she couldnt do nada because I wuz always there. Yes, I WUZ ALWAYS THERE, because SHE wanted me there. When she wanted to see me, I would go and see her. I would give her days off without me so that she wouldnt be bored of me. She would tell me that I didnt care about her cause I wouldnt go often. I live about 30min away from her, and I wuz always there. She would get mad when I wouldnt go, but she would tell other people that I wuz always there. Thats she couldnt breath. Its funny how people have different faces. With evry person, is a different mask. Just be patient. Only time will tell. I tried and tried and TRIED to work things out, but she just gave up. People seem to always take the eazy way out, but later on when they realized what they had, it'll be too late. All my time, for my ex. I would give her my time to add time to hers. I would drive from my town to her town. Bring her to my town to do her shopping. Take her back to her town, then return minutes later. I didnt mine doing those things for her. But it was NEVER enough. Keep your head up homie. Be the best U can be now. In this world, is every man for itself. Gotta be strong. I know am in pain, but with GOD, EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. Do positive things.
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