Scoop88 Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 I have always been more of a shy person and haven't had a lot of dating experience. People I have dated in the past have always been girls that I have known for awhile so I've always had that level of initial comfort with them when things get going. But the last few years I have become much more outgoing and sociable. Still, I've never been a guy to go up to a random cute girl in public and start up a conversation or ask her out. Anyways, I went out last night with some friends of mine to a local bar. Our waitress was pretty cute but it was a busy night so we didn't really get to chat with her much. We ended up leaving before the bar closed. So I went home and went to bed. Next morning, I see I have a missed call from a little after the bar closed.. from our waitress. Apparently one of my friends wrote my number down on our bill for her. I had a busy day today so I haven't been able to call her back. She didn't leave a message so I don't know if I should call or if I should text because really, I know nothing about this girl and don't really know what to do. It's just weird to me because I haven't really talked to her. Any thoughts?
Duckduckgoose Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Don't call at first but text her and find out. Make sure it is you she was meaning to talk to.
hART Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Ask her how she is. You know one thing: you want to learn more about her. Ask her some questions to learn more about her. If you like her ask her out for drinks, if you don't there a billions of other women out there.
hART Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Don't call at first but text her and find out. Make sure it is you she was meaning to talk to. good idea.
Author Scoop88 Posted March 28, 2011 Author Posted March 28, 2011 A good thought for sure but I do know it was for me. My friend wrote my name with my number and through the little convo we did have she did know that much. I think I'll start with a text
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 How did you figure out it was her if she didn't leave a message?
musemaj11 Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 I dont know how you know it was her. But if it was her then you owe it to her to call her back. She woman'd up and called you first but you missed the call. Now its your turn to man up and call her.
Feelin Frisky Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Do not "text" her. Return her phone call and keep it real. Text just ain't the way to go with this one. Phone call is.
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