bolso4 Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 I never know which method is good between both extremes? I'm 24 and I find that the major advice people give out is "be as forward as possible". Example 1- "Hi. I've been wanting to ask you out for awhile. You wanna go for a movie?" Then again, I find that a lot of guys are mostly successful by being super subtle. IE: Example 2: "Hey. Give me your number. We should hang out sometime." ....etc "Want to come over and watch a movie?". As if the sexual interest is implied. Which one would men and women consider to be the most successful type of approach?
Eddie Edirol Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 Is there any work done on getting to know her before you ask her out in these scenarios?
Author bolso4 Posted March 28, 2011 Author Posted March 28, 2011 Hi. Yes. I'm saying well enough that you're not thrown into the friend zone. Occasional speakers.
fishtaco Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 By default I go for forward. But if you get the opportunity to warm her up, warm her up first. For example, you know for sure you'll be running into each other repeatedly. Well then, you don't have to rush it so much. You could get to know each other a bit, just enough to make her feel comfortable, then you go forward. I prefer not to do the "let's hang out" thing. I make it as clear as possible. That way women can't weasel out of it, watch the movie that you bought tickets for, eat the meal you purchased, then go... oh.. I thought we were just being friends.
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