loveforever Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 My ex-husband (yes, we're divorced) told me (in January) he wants to try to reconcile.... We're living together with our two children. We had the occasional sex, but otherwise he didn't show any other affection like hugs, kisses, etc. He was nice and sweet, but no affection. I have to admit I gave him a real hard time by making accusations about other women (he had an EA) and last week he slept 2 nights in the spare bedroom because of a fight we had about it..... The days after we got along well....he was talking nicely and all and after a dentist visit and a whole bottle of whine he was drunk one night and tried to have sex with me.....I didn't respond to it and he went to sleep. The next day he was fine with me, but when I awoke in the middle of the night, I found him in the spare bedroom again... When I asked him why the next day he said "To avoid things (sex)"....I said "Why ??" and he answered "Because it's not right".... I'm totally confused.... My first thought is he's found someone else, but why did he want to have sex with me the night before then ??? And why is he so nice and caring all of a sudden... He tells me when he's leaving to go somewhere (didn't do that before)....he asks me if I want things from the store....he asks if I can eat when he's making lunch for the kids and him (I have a fat cheek from and abscess)....he hangs out by me when I'm on the computer goofing off with the kid or the dog (he used to not even look at me and just walk by)....he looks me in the eyes when he's talking whereas before he would just talk and not waste one look at me..... All that speaks against another woman, but the sleeping in the spare speaks for it..... Wouldn't you think if he had someone else, he would also be like pre-divorce (when he had the EA), where he hardly looked at me and was constantly annoyed with me..... It's all so contradicting..... What do you think ??? Did any of you had experiences like this before ???
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