DollyGirl12 Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 “Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become character. Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.” When my relationship ended last September I was in much agony and pain. My ex had been planning, if he already hadn't, to cheat on me. He was emailing couples and women from Craigslist. Come to later find out, he had a past history of this (had hundreds of CL personal email addresses stored in his email address book. He had also done this with his ex girlfriend. When he and his ex girlfriend hooked up he had been with a girlfriend previous to that. So he has a big history of cheating. It was kind of funny that he proclaimed to be one who is very faithful and would never cheat on anyone. Anyhow, I know many of you are going through similar types of pain. This is something I printed out and left copies in almost every room of my house that I occupied and I read it on a regular basis. Every time I thought about that wonderful guy who loved to give me big hugs, tell me how much he loved me and wanted a future with me, and never seemed to be able to get enough of me, I read this. It helped me put things in to perspective, as many of us are left feeling terrible about ourselves, when in fact, it's not about us at all, has nothing to do with us. I hope it helps someone here!
butterfly2011 Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 Thank you Dolly. Definitely something to think about.
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