amythan Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 Hi, I do not know how to explain this without feeling a bit silly. I used to go out with this guy who worked with me. He was going through a difficult time and we felt hard for each other. It was a long time ago last time I had this stupid joy. He used to say I am the greatest girl on earth and i remember his urge to see me all the time. And one day all stopped. No notice, no explanation. Nothing. I made a fool of myself and he explained how much he loves me but I knew we cannot have a relationship and this was going too fast. We continued to see each other and eventually we slept together. Now he claims I am one of his best friends. And it seems to be a big deal for him. But reality is that we are not. He has a gf. He never contacts me but asks me to contact him all the time. He cares about me and meets me every time I am in town. I am feeling sad because I remember what we used to have and the way he looked at me. And now I can see how this has changed. When he looks at me I am not the cute goofy girl who made him smile. And this makes me feel sad. I cannot stop wondering why he does not see me anymore. What killed this feeling. He wants to see me all the time and he says he is too attracted to me and he truly cares about me. But I do not feel special anymore. Is this friendship worth it ? Why does he keep trying to have me around if his feelings have gone ? Why are we doing this to ourselves ?
2010_Sorry Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 If spending time with him and communicating with him is making you feel sad because he doesn't look at you the same, then no, the friendship is not worth the pain you're putting yourself through!
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