Mixed28 Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 Like my emotions for my ex are confusing I want nothing to do with her I dont even want to talk to her. At the same time I want her to be happy (she did not cheat or anything shes a good girl just didn't see herself with me) I will be honest I am a little jealous of her getting a new boyfriend but whatever. Anyway I am not in a sevre depression like i was when I got dumped right now I feel like I am in limbo a meh feeling if that makes sense. It does not help that there are so many damn couples on campus either in fact most students are in relationships. And my school is 67% female and yet no girl I feel is interested in me.
turokturok5 Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 (edited) yep, completely normal. i feel exactly the same - i want nothing to do with her anymore, realised i didn't have that much fun with her anyway but she is a good person. anyway went to a party last night, she was there, i had heaps of fun talking to lots of people while she just hung around her best friend. anyways my best mate, who i was pretty certain liked her was drunk and i finally got him to admitt it and afterwards i saw him hanging around her heaps and saying to our other friend he wasn't going to ask her out yet because she didn't seem too keen. i went insane and started walking home which was 5 hours away, later on i ended up abusing the hell out of my friend, when i look back now i feel like a complete idiot because i dont even want the relationship we had back.. oh and btw, you seem like your kind of in the same boat as me so my advice is to just not worry about it anymore. The thought of "not wanting to have anything to do with them anymore" derives from the fact that you didn't enjoy your relationship 100% and feel as if your better off? thats how i feel anyway. These thoughts only come because of lonliness, having someone who cares about you and then your left with this void that needs filling. You don't need a new relationship to fill it though, just re-connect with old friends or make new friends (preferably females!) I started talking to an old friend last night and had no thoughts of my ex at all! Edited March 27, 2011 by turokturok5
VJohnson32 Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 There are several stages during the period of grief/loss but when you come to realization and acceptance without anger and regrets then you are very near to complete happiness.
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