callsign Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 My girlfriend just whisked me across the street where we did the dirty, spontaneously, energetically, hell it was fun, but she went home telling me she was in a mood "didn't do anything right" and she was "no good for me". One day implies that she wants to marry, is not leaving me, but has to figure things out. One day is peaches and cream the next day, kinda dark. I don't know what to think anymore. She says she loves me, it's "not you, it's me" she says, but she is not leaving. On one hand, everything she has said over the past month is like a bagload of dating breakup cliches. On the other hand, if I don't call, she calls me and seems to want to be together. I'm all mixed up. Is it because she's all mixed up? What to do, what to do.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 Hmm, I don't know. Does she have a history of these issues?
Author callsign Posted March 27, 2011 Author Posted March 27, 2011 Yea, there is. Childhood abuse, some real bad things happened in her life lately. I can understand the confusion, but after nearly two years I would hope she could lean on me a bit more. I've always been there for her. Problem is I just really do love her, enough to put her happiness ahead of my own, but being so close to the problem, I just am at a loss what to make of all this.
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